Why would he delete our chats on telegram?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend who I like and he actually gives me mixed signals, and this time he deleted our messages on Telegram. I was the one who sent him the last message, and he did not open it for several days. Then I noticed that he deleted all the conversations between us, knowing that there is a feature of deleting the messages for only him, but he deleted it for both sides. I don't know why he did that

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is weird that your friend deleted all the messages on Telegram. A few possibilities coming to mind:

- He may be confused about his feelings for you and deleting the messages was a way to "reset" things or avoid feeling stuck. Long texts can make things feel more intense.

- Maybe he got nervous about something he said in an earlier message and wanted to cover his tracks. Guys don't always know how to handle things well.

- Possibly he's talking to other people and didn't want anyone seeing your messages pop up if they used his phone.

- Could be an accident, maybe his brother or someone deleted them messing around on his phone.

I wouldn't jump to thinking it means he doesn't like you or anything. Just play it cool for now - don't bring up the deleted messages. See how he acts next time you hang out. If he's still giving you attention, I wouldn't worry too much. But if he starts acting more distant, you might want to ask him what's up. Good luck! I'm sure it's nothing too serious.

[CalmUntilAbused]

Well... Telegram is considered by some to be a secure channel of communication, but He might have decided that He went overboard and sent You something truly incriminating for Himself as for the modern Western standards of political correctness, for example, and for some reason He does not fully trust You.

[ManOnFire]

That's what we call being shady. You texted him last and he didn't open it for days. That was not by mistake. 'Friends' or anyone who seems interested in you are not going to do something like that unless some kind of interest was lost and they started talking to someone else.

[PersonalityAnxious]

I'm in the same situation as you. However, he's still in love with his ex, and I heard there might be a possible comeback between them. So maybe that's probably the reason why he deleted our convo in Telegram, and also when I visit his FB profile, there's no message option in there, but we're still friends, and I still see his posts. Is there a possible way that he restricted me?

[strateguy632]

because he found someone else as a lover