I'm 22 and he’s a 39 year old married.. I talk to him 24/7 and when his wife is mentioned I get mad and ignore him with the intent to hurt him?

[Anonymous]

Am I doing bad?

[_Maya_]

Yep. You aren't good by any means. If you aren't trolling then yeah you are doing bad because you are facilitating his cheating and eventually going to break up a marriage. Do you think good people do that? No. Only people who have a total lack of respect for someone's marriage does that. He's no better and you two are made for each other. Guess what? If he leaves his wife for you just how long do you think it will be before he gets tired of you and cheats? Do you think the hoe that he cheats on you with will be a good person when it happens?

[Asker]

I’ve told him to go away but he won’t leave. Every single day I push him away.

[_Maya_]

Sure you do sweetheart... sure you do. Anyone with a brain would just block his number. It ain't hard to ghost someone.

[rachel776b]

if you're involved the wife is going to be mentioned and you have to be ready to just go with the flow. she's the one getting screwed, not you 🤷‍♀️

[Finchie40]

If you know he is married , then why are you talking to him on a regular basis in the first place? Do you want to have sex with him? It sounds like you do , because you wouldn’t be getting upset when he talks about his wife? He clearly wants to have sex with you, or he wouldn’t be talking to you every day behind his wife’s back

[DaveJord]

I mean it does not sound good honestly. Unless you are fucking him... I mean you are still bad, but I can forgive you for it. But if you are just messing with him without sex... then that is wrong on so many levels.

[Asker]

What’s the difference between both of those scenarios?

[DaveJord]

Both are wrong, that's the bottom line.

But if you are cheating with him and having sex with him... well you got him by the balls if he does not want his wife to find out. So sure, treat him like shit, he will put up with it if the sex is good. I mean you are fucking a married man, so he cannot expect you to be all on board with whatever the bullshit is. I mean he knows you got him by the balls, so he needs to take whatever you dish out. I mean he is a cheater, so he made that bed and now needs to sleep in it.

But if he is married, and you have not had sex, and he is not a cheater. And you are doing these things on purpose... then you essentially trying to manipulate him into doing whatever it is you want. And if you are doing this on purpose to a married man, then to me that is worse than just cheating. You are fucking with his mental state, when you have not even slept with him. You're just a manipulative, emotional abuser then.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

How’s f*cking him less wrong?

[DaveJord]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 Its not a matter of it being less wrong, it's a matter of him at least getting something out of the mind fuck games she is trying to play. If cheats he cheats, if not her Thens one else. In no way am I implying these are good and honest people we are dealing with.

There is a such a thing as honor among thieves, so if she is at least fucking then screw with his mind all you want, one thief to another.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

So having sex with him does in some way justify their behavior?

You’re suggesting her a very wrong thing.

As long as woman has sex with a man, she’s forgiven for any type of behavior she has?

The right advice from you would be to stop messing with a married man and then getting angry when he mentions his wife, who’s the woman who can rightfully fuck him any time of the day.

[DaveJord]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 Okay, I did not say anything about justifying her behavior, actually if you read what I said, then you clear see I have said the opposite several times.

As far as you say as what the write advice would be... I mean she knows that already and obviously does not care. She came her asking for advice. So, I am not validating her life choices. What I am telling her is that if she wants to play those games, then go ahead that is what he signed up for, when made the choice to cheat. This what she feels she can pull and get away with, because she knows they are cheating. If she does feel that makes her a bad person, then who am I to judge.

Obviously, he is cheating with 22 year and they both know it wrong and they do not care. So he and she both dissevered what is coming, but she if that is her game... then she should be at least fucking him. Because obviously doesn't give a shit about her, and she knows it, and that is why she is lashing out at him in this very passive aggressive way. When he honestly does not deserve when they both know what they are doing and agree to do it anyway.

So, it is one thing to be wrong at the start, then to be wrong on top of wrong. Obviously, she should stop, fucking and playing games... but obviously she does not really want to do that either.

[spartan55]

Troll, and a bad one.

[Asker]

I swear to God that I am being serious.

[spartan55]

So you need clarification that fooling around with a married man is good or bad?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea he's married, find a man that's available

[Anonymous]

It is pretty funny.😆😆😆

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't be playing with fire.

[Asker]

What can happen?

[Iron_Man]

The wife comes for you

[Asker]

@Iron_Man I definitely don’t want that

[Iron_Man]

Back off then

[Asker]

@Iron_Man I texted him now and told him to never talk to me ever again. I’m over it.

[Iron_Man]

Ok…,

[Luckycharms12]

Leave him alone find single man

[Asker]

I agree with you. Every day I tell him to leave me alone but he won’t go away.

[Luckycharms12]

Block him don't want to be a home wrecker. Sure he is into it because you are a good looking girl

[TiaNour]

He’s married….

[Asker]

Yeah

[Jmmmfi4]

OBVIOUSLY YES