If a guy opens up to you about feeling sad about something (specifically having to get rid of his bike) what’s the best way to comfort him?

[Finfin1981]

Also it’s a good sign when someone shows their vulnerable side right?

[Anonymous]

Listening empathetically is key. Acknowledge his feelings, express understanding, and offer support. You might say something like, "I can imagine how tough it is for you to part with your bike. I'm here for you if you want to talk more about it or if there's anything I can do to help."

Yes, it can be a positive sign when someone opens up about their vulnerabilities. It indicates trust and a willingness to share their true self with you. It can deepen your connection and allow for a more authentic relationship.

[Summeroflove]

Yeah. It means he trusts you. Being vulnerable can mean a lot of things. It can mean emotions and crying yes. I don’t think women who don’t know how to confront men make bad mothers. Not nurturing. Obviously there is the extreme end of crying. But.


It can also be. Just being themselves around you. Letting their guard down. Showing the side of them when they’re alone and nobody is around. Because if you’re gonna marry someone. You need to love them for who they are inside.

[RageBabe]

In my view, the best course of action is to simply be there and listen. You may even offer a hug, and sure, it's a positive indication that he feels secure enough to be vulnerable with you.

[spartan55]

Getting rid of his bike? Wtf? That's not making himself vulnerable.

[Finfin1981]

🤣🤣

[Finfin1981]

Well it’s his only vehicle … 🤣

[spartan55]

Okay... why does he have to get rid of it?

[Finfin1981]

Money issues snd new job far away

[spartan55]

Okay. So he's moving for a new job with no transportation?

[Finfin1981]

Yeah he’ll have to get an electric vehicle now so the mb goes think it was some really good one by the sounds of it?

[spartan55]

So you think you can hold it together until that guy visits?

[Finfin1981]

What do you mean hold it together? Hmm 🤔🤣

[spartan55]

Keep in contact, keep trying to build a connection etc

[MrCommodore]

Hug him, then kiss him?

[Finfin1981]

Well I’m not with him but o did say I wish I was there so I could hug you and he said ‘that’s the response I’ve been waiting for …’

[MrCommodore]

Sounds like you both are smitten 🥰

[Gent207-2]

Just listen