He said he likes me but isn't head over heal yet because it early?

[Anonymous]

Shouldn't a man be head over heels when they start talking to you?

[Oliverlogan263]

I don't know, saying he likes you but isn't head over heels yet doesn't sound too promising. Usually if a guy is really feeling a girl, he'll know pretty quick.

I mean, I get it's still early so he doesn't know you super well yet. But usually by the first couple dates or so, you can tell if there's a spark there or not, ya know?

If he's not starting to get kinda obsessed with you already, always wanting to be around you and hittin' you up, then I don't know if he's that into it. When I like a girl, I'm all over her tryna spend time together.

I'd say give it a little more time to see if he starts stepping up his game. But if he's still just "liking" you and acting kinda whatever about it after a few more dates, then this dude probably ain't that interested. You deserve a guy who's hyped about you from the jump, feel me?

Don't just settle if he ain't treating you the way you want. There's other dudes out there who'd treat a girl right. Keep your options open, ya know what I'm sayin'?

[spartan55]

No, you shouldn't expect that. So saying he likes you isn't good enough? Good lord... lighten up.

[strateguy632]

no, don't expect that. i don't feel that way even when later the relationship was successful