Do men like when the women treats them like a human?

[Anonymous]

I have a hard time with connections and have been treating men like I would with anyone else but … I feel like women are meaner to men and when I’m mean they seem to chase me when I don’t want them but when I am interested I treat them like a friend to build up chemistry with some little flirting here and there and I was just wondering if men are drawn to that or should I stay a little more hard to get ish at first? I’m a little confused since I never really thought about it before but lately I’m wondering if I’m just not in the loop with things.

[MysticDevice]

Be the flirty friend first.

Speaking from experience there's this girl who's currently into me but I'm not into her. This is because she lead with being a brat first. She would tease and make fun of me 24/7 from the moment we met and all it did was make me cautious around her. I couldn't let my guard down and I couldn't relax around her.

Obviously that's no way to build chemistry. Naturally when she made her intentions clear I had to turn her down cause I just didn't like her enough.

[Yannae]

Yes... because we are human. Humans like to be treated like humans.

[KrakenAttackin]

Only fuck boys will chase a "mean" woman. But you are in prime carousel riding years so have at it.

[strateguy632]

treat them like a friend

[Anonymous]

Well, it sure beats getting treated like a dog.