Why is it when?

[Anonymous]

You bottle up feelings for a girl

It doesn't work?

[dynamicyandere]

I’m guessing you have feelings for a girl and either you or her is taken?


(Because if you’re both single, there’s no harm in letting her know. In fact, that would be the best thing to do. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.)


But, assuming it’s a situation where you have feelings for a girl but it would be a bad idea to confess (particularly if you’re already in a relationship)…


I mean, you just need to exercise self-discipline and control your urges.


If you care about your current relationship, you should work on your current relationship and learn to let this other girl go.


If you’re set on pursuing this other girl, then it’s not fair to your current girl if your heart belongs to another girl already.


If you don’t want to repair the relationship, then it would be best to break things off before pursing the girl who holds your heart.


If your crush is the one who is already taken… Well, then it’s best to back off. Because if you confess, you’re going to enter into muddy waters.


You’ll be putting her in a dicey situation.


If she does anything but reject you, she’ll be cheating on her current partner.


If her partner finds out, depending on how he is, he may put you or her in danger.


It’s best to back the f*ck off if they’re taken.


But, let’s say you decided to confess (but not pursue), just so she knows.


Well, then that’s where you should come to a full stop.


If you’re going to play close to the boundary, this is the boundary that you don’t want to cross.


Otherwise, one step further, and you’re involved in an affair.


That’s going to be messy.


So, if you want to avoid accidentally being pulled into an even more complicated situation, it’s best that you exercise self-restraint and discipline.


But, if you are both single, I don’t see why you can’t just confess.

[HateyouxD]

What do you mean exactly what dosnt work

[Asker]

When I try not to say what I feel because I can't

[HateyouxD]

It's OK it's good to say how you feel

[Asker]

It's complicated so I can't