Do guys presume you're easy to get?

[Monalisa77]

Yes

No

[IslaTheWitch]

No, even when flirting, I still keep my distance. Most men are not thrilled and give up quickly :D

It's a great way to weed out the idiots :D

[Monalisa77]

Yup this is what I did

[Monalisa77]

But i think they presumed id b easy

[IslaTheWitch]

It's what I do... always. I keep people at distance. Physically and verbally. I don't let them cross my boundaries.

[Monalisa77]

How do u get a boyfriend tho

[Monalisa77]

And i couldnt exactly forsee someone touching my hand

[IslaTheWitch]

I take my time. I have a group of friends and we meet in some places, we like. If I liked someone I can give my phone number or just tell when I will be in this place again. If he appears again, we will again flirt and banter. It takes me time to feel comfortable around people. If he likes me enough to wait and if I like him enough to keep in contact to ensure the next meetings, we have a chance.

[Monalisa77]

Yeah its tough when u don't have friends either. people know i eant to go out looking but they won't help.

[Monalisa77]

I think they just assume guys wouldn't like me

[IslaTheWitch]

I focus on my friends mostly. The rest happens anyway

[mandyfire98]

Possibly. My personality is just usually in bubbly, outgoing mode. It comes off like flirting even when I don't flirt.

[Monalisa77]

R u touchy feely?

[mandyfire98]

Yeah I'm a bit flamboyant I'll admit. Nothing inappropriate or anything.

[Monalisa77]

Would u stroke someones hand?

[Monalisa77]

And or stare at them?

[mandyfire98]

I definitely make eye contact when talking to people.

[Monalisa77]

Yeh but when ur bot talking and thw other person isn't looking at u

[Monalisa77]

Yeh but when ur not talking and the other person isn't looking at u

[mandyfire98]

No I don't stare at people

[Monalisa77]

Thanks. My cousin who said this guy was similar to u tried to pray off the flirting that eye contact was the way he was but he was doing it when i wasn't looking

[DevikaButts95]

Yes, but to be fair, I am incredibly easy to convince to get me to sit on your face (clothed) or get my toes sucked.
In the way they presume me to be easy though? I'm very much not.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, men get that impression all the time.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Yes, their poor excuse of 'effort' to flirt, thinking that will work.

[12karen]

guys tell me that, so I guess it's yes,