Can I trust him?

[Anonymous]

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. After a year of being together, I noticed that he was liking this girl's photos on IG. He only liked photos with her in them, and none of her other posts. They both followed each other on there. I have never met this girl nor has he mentioned her to me. I decided back then not to confront him about it but to keep an eye on it.

Since then, this girl hasn't posted much, but recently she posted a photo of herself and he liked it. While he still follows her, she has unfollowed him (I'd like to think it's because she knows he's in a relationship. He posts photos of me and us together sometimes). We have a place and dog together now, which should spell out commitment, but him liking her photos is making me question how happy and loyal he truly is.

What do you think?

[Finchie40]

Sadly to say your boyfriend is disrespectful and doesn’t value and love you like you deserve , it’s one thing for someone that’s already in a relationship to look at an attractive person , but to act on it is a different story , by him liking her pictures , pretty much an indication that he is letting her know, that he is interested in her and and finds her attractive, so in a sense he is cheating on you. Most selfish cheating people
Guys’ as girls. ’ will try to sugarcoat this as much as possible, because they know it’s wrong. How would your boyfriend feel if he saw you liking some other attractive guys’ pictures? I guarantee he wouldn’t like it so much so for him doing this to you just shows his true character that he only cares about himself. So my advice to you is to have a sit down talk with him and be honest to him that you feel disrespected that he is liking this girls’ pictures , if he gets all defensive and tries to play a victim by telling you that you are being insecure? Dump his ass , because he clearly doesn’t value you , he only likes the convenience of you , If he apologies and unfollows that girl and tells you he is sorry then that shows he does care about you and doesn’t want to lose you ,

[Wallfly]

If you question whether or not he's happy, and aren't just asking him, why would he trust you? Trust is a two way street here.

Shot in the dark, I bet if you get sex therapy it works out either way for you. Either you learn to be the fuck that he's thirsting over on instagram, or you get better in touch with yourself.

Men aren't allowed to tell women they want better sex, it's considered objectifying. So we kind of have to seek it out where it exists.

Also men tend learn the hard way not to trust women with too much. Ladies can be as flakey as the wind, and can turn into total ice queens the moment they're faced with owning up to hurting someone or failing to communicate. You, for example, are like: "he wants something and I know it, but rather than talking should I just fish for advice to dump him?" And the other women and simps are going to say "yeah, don't communicate, just dump. You deserve the entire world on a silver platter." And men know this is how ladies are, and it wrecks havoc on trust.

So no, you shouldn't trust him. And he shouldn't trust you. But that doesn't mean you can't make something better than loneliness.

[Anonymous]

Most men can't be trusted. It sucks, but that is just the way they are wired.

[Flatmanlewis]

Is this some real life chick he knows or just some celebrity crush?

[Asker]

Real life

[Flatmanlewis]

My personal belief - social media is nothing but pure drama. I found life so much better when I dumped mine. In the end, it’s up to you to decide how much of your man’s behavior you wish to regulate.

[Anonymous]

4 years together and all it takes for you to not trust him anymore is liking another girls photo? Not even a basically naked chick, literally just pictures of another girl? Pretty lame tbh I'd dump you if you gave me shit for this.

[In_Trance]

Stay off social media before you fuck everything up

[Asker]

How am I ruining things?

[CuriousMufuxka]

Talk to him about it!