That is your gut telling you that you're right. Listen to your body when it talks to you.
If you are with a guy that you are constantly stressed out that he's with someone else you need to bow out from the relationship.
I was in a relationship with that kind of guy for years. And guess what? They are compulsive liars too. They'll look at you straight into your eyes and lie. And they are so good at it, we believe them.
It was madding because we've been living together for the last year and a half. He would leave and tell me he was going to the store to get this or that. One night he didn't come home all night. When he finally got home, he was wearing a hoodie I had never seen him wear. When I got closer and smelled it, it smelled like perfume. She wore that same stinky perfume when she was here the other day.
Well, I have suspected that he and the lady that helps me with shopping, etc. have been seeing each other ever since they first met. Yet, he said I love you, not her. Will, I know I'm right. She was the one that came to my apartment to tell me he died suddenly. How would she know that before anyone else? Yesterday she cleaned out his side of the closet and took his clothes and other stuff with her. Weird? Then when she was folding the towels he used to dry off, she said "Yeah, he always smelled very clean, he did take a couple of showers a day". Now, how would she even know that about him when she claimed they only spoke a few times and she didn't really know him.
My whole point is find a guy you can trust. You can see by what I wrote how it happens.
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It’s not “trust issues”. That’s what the other person calls it. But for you it’s real and you’re trying to protect yourself. You don’t have “issues”. You’re just working through some things, which is completely rational.
It’s so mean when others say things like “you have trust issues”, “something wrong with your brain”, “he’s fine, it’s you that’s not”.
People love to be mean because it’s easy and effortless and sounds informative.
Confront him when you are both relaxing and in a good head space together or during cuddle time: let him know you’re feeling afraid of being let down and ask for his perspective on how you should go about it. Involving him is far better than thinking he’s up to something. Especially if he has never done such things 😎🫠🌱
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When someone is really nice to you and you enjoy their company they most likely aren't cheating so give him the benefit of the doubt. People cheat because they don't feel loved or dont feel the love they once did for their partner. If things are going smoothly with both of you then trust him he sounds like a good guy. Stop worrying about the maybes and just enjoy being with him, you don't want to push away a good guy because of the CHANCE he could be cheating with no proof or even reasonable doubt whatsoever.
well can you usually trust your intuition or do you think you might have trust issues?
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You have trust issues and your overthinking will find something wrong even when there is nothing there. There are people in the world that spend the whole day trying to find enough food for their family and you have a timer running on text message replies?
Sounds like hard core trust issues. Though, sometimes your sixth sense has noticed things you aren’t consciously aware of, so I wouldn’t say you’re exactly paranoid.
If he seems too good to be true then it's he's mostly likely hiding his real identity.
Never ignore your intuition. Proceed with caution with dudes that seem too "perfect"I think you have trust issues. People with a life don't watch their phone constantly.
you need to have your own life.
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