So I met this guy on a dating app. We’re both possessive over eachother but I feel like I am more. He’s handsome, and he’s also really nice and polite to almost everyone. We agreed on a relationship, but we haven’t really done anything besides hang at his place. He had invited me to movies and dinner but I don’t feel confident enough so we always just hang at his place. He says that he likes me and will never cheat on me because he knows that it hurts. And when I asked him if we will, he said no with a really serious look like almost offended. We also get along really well, our personalities fit together like puzzle pieces but I feel like I’m not pretty enough for him.
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Also I noticed once when I came out of the washroom he put his phone away quickly
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I think you are your own worse enemy...
Yeah I really like him but I don’t know why I can’t trust him
That's a big hurdle... hope you can hop that one soon !!
'when I came out of the washroom he put his phone away quickly '
Only a person that has something to hide does that. It's s reflex born from dodgy activities. You don't trust him because most cannot be trusted and you have not developed discernment. There is no end game for your connection. You are just going through the motions probably led by (eventual) pleasure.
Yeah what should I do about it? I don’t feel like I can trust him but he’s really nice and he says he only has me many times
Stay single until you trust yourself enough to trust another. But this will only come through seeking the spiritual side to life / relationships and God. Take a look around at all of the toxic relationships and most of them have that in common...
Maybe he's broke? Or cheap?