Can't trust my boyfriend anymore?

[Anonymous]

A few weeks ago, my boyfriend told me he was going out with “friends for sushi and ice cream.” he was gone for two hours or so. The next day I went to pay him for something and saw that a girl paid him for sushi the night before. He insisted they were friends but I also see he has her on snapchat. I felt lied to about the whole thing. Why didn’t he just say it was a girl? I can’t stop thinking about it and it’s made me act differently towards him. I don’t think I can ever get over this. Today after not hearing from him all day I said I feel like i’m chasing him, and that ever since the events of a few weeks ago, our relationship has been rocky and honestly weird, and that’s why i’ve been acting the way I have been (overthinking, anxiety, etc.) I don’t know if we can really come back from this, I felt like he was hiding things from me and still is.

[Ironic_Method]

I feel like I might be in the minority, but I don't differentiate between friends and "girl" if she's a friend. So if I'm going to hang out with a friend it could be anyone.

[Asker]

but we had agreed that if we were gonna hang out with someone of the opposite sex, the other should know.

[Ironic_Method]

I feel like that makes it him being dishonest, which is something else entirely.

[Asker]

it sounded a little too much like a date

[Ironic_Method]

Mhmm. I have a low tolerance for dishonesty and am great at sniffing that out so... I really haven't let a situation get that far. Do what you feel is best for YOU.

[Asker]

lol it eats me up…i just want it to end

[provokeesmokee]

You realize men and women can be platonic friends, right? Yikes.

[Asker]

ugh yes…just don’t be secretive about it. jfc.