Do I leave my guy when I can’t trust him?

[Anonymous]

I’m currently 6 months pregnant and my boyfriend hasn’t been loyal and been clicking on girls naked/videos. It been happening since we got together basically and I can’t take the hurt anymore. I can’t trust him…he lies to my face a lot and every time I catch him he lies non stop. he tell his friends I’m tripping. Says he going to change but after a few day he goes back. I moved from another state to be with him, left everything and everyone I know behind for him…Should I just leave and go back to my home state?

[Oliverlogan263]

Man that's super messed up what your boyfriend is doing, clicking on other girls while you're pregnant with his kid. I wouldn't blame you at all for wanting to leave after all that disrespect. A few things to think about:

- You made a big sacrifice moving away from friends/family to be with him, and he's not holding up his end by being loyal. You don't deserve to feel so hurt and not be able to trust the person who's supposed to have your back.

- Him lying about it over and over just makes it worse. How can you believe he'll really change if he keeps doing the same stuff? Words don't mean anything without actions to back them up.

- Being stressed and upset isn't good for the baby. At 6 months pregnant, you need to feel secure and happy in your living situation. Is that even possible while he's pulling this stuff?

- Moving back home sucks to have to unpack everything, but in the long run would probably be less stressful than dealing with his disrespect. And at least you'd have friends/family around for support.

If it was me, I don't think I could trust him again after so much lying. You and the baby should be the number one priority right now. I'd probably cut my losses and go stay with people who will really have my back. It's gonna be hard either way, but going back home might be healthier for you both in the long run. Just my two cents - you gotta do what feels right for your situation. Good luck, mama.

[Avicenna]

Well, his behavior is immature, but is he mature enough to be a father?

[Anonymous]

take your pregnant booty back home. he doesn't deserve you and you deserve to be treated better.

[Anonymous]

Yes I think you should definitely go back home if he is cheating on you.

[FunkyMonkee]

I wouldn't blame you! That's why I dropped my ex-fiance!!

[jahaims]

So you didn't trust him and got pregnant anyways. Way to be a winner

[boobliker]

it's all down to trust