As a woman, if you always receive male attention is only because you’re pretty? or could It be you’re doing things unconsciously that attract them?

[Anonymous]

[Drew-1990]

I would say both honestly, you are probably very attractive and/or you are doing something that they think is you inviting them to ask you out or something

[RebelinSteel]

Usually it’s things like being a woman and breathing, that attracts guys.

[Asker]

No I don’t mean just your regular attract. I mean, when I’m on lunch at work, a guy is around, when I’m doing my job at work, guy customers and co workers stand around talking to me. I’ve had a guy go as far as saying, out loud in front of others, what he would do to me sexually, at work. I’m 21 and have had a co worker in his middle to late 30’s, whose married, sit close to me and bring his face so close to mines as we talked, you would think we were about to kiss.

[RebelinSteel]

Yes that’s from having a pulse. Guys will try it with anyone.

[Asker]

I see plenty of other pretty women at my job, who get attention as well but not in the same way I do. guys either seem too scared to approach them or when they do, they’re not so straightforward. With me, it’s the opposite. I get guys will talk to any woman with a pulse but this seems different.

[laly520]

never done anything on purpose to attract em n for some reason I mostly attract the strange ones or ones who would be dangerous

[LaurenM1997]

I attract all the cheats 😕 don’t want to but it happens therefore it’s not fair

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Neither. Men are biologically are attracted to women so it's just nature.

A woman only gets a lot of attention from men if they are physically pretty.

[Asker]

But what if it’s not the normal, he sees you, says hello, ask for your number kind of attention but rather attention that’s aggressive. A woman sitting alone and a man randomly comes and sits with her, a woman standing minding her business or doing her job and a male co worker or customer chats her up, all in her face, giving her no space. Like they’re straightforward with you rather than respectful and considering your boundaries. It seems like it could be more to it than me being pretty and not in a positive way.

[Saamee]

I can't tell you without watching your picture