Girls never look at me?

[Anonymous]

I am really shy, but I think I am, well, OK in looks. Nobody of the girls in my school look at me, they always ignore my existence. What should I do to catch someones attention?

[kambo_trick3y]

I used to be like you, but you'll find as you become more experienced that girls are not the stinging monsters that people make them out to be. A lot of them don't laugh at you like some kind of hideously disfigured extraterrestrial creature trying to make some attempt to talk to a higher being, they're actually pretty nice. The truth lies in the fact that shy guys really don't give themselves as much credit as we should and though you may already know that, the trick lies in being able to keep this confidence within yourself while you are talking to a girl. Trust me, people like to talk, but you have to approach the situation interested, but not clingy. Shoot some questions out on subjects she brings up, be genuinely interested, but also not desperate for her attention. Hope this helps, and keep your chin up, you're worth a lot more than you think!

[Collegeruger]

Flashy cloths such as bright colored cloths will get you noticed and if people like them you might get complimented on them.

walk tall not slouched over make it so you look confident even if you arn't 100%.

try a new hair style possibly

you could also approach them. if you are shy the only way to do it is try. if you make a mistake it's not a big deal they will realize you are nervouse and shouldn't make a big deal out of it. the more you try the better you will get and the less nervouse you will be. almost like everything you do you get better with practice.

[SweetAsSugar15]

First of all you must gain some confidence of your self and that there is nothing 2 be shy from.

Be your self never try to imitate any other popular guy or anyone.

Be sweet , gentle and cool . You should have a great communication skills inorder to have a nice conversation with anyone ( girl or boy ) . Believe me if you wil be confident no one will ever ignore your existence . Just keep in mind that you musnt be shy cz there is nothing 2 be shy from. I hope I helped !

[Anonymous]

do you look at them? do you catch their eyes? do you smile?

[Asker]

I am way too shy to even smile to girls. Of course I look at them but I always try to not catch their eyes.

[Opinion Owner]

if you try not to catch their eyes, then how do you know if they're not looking at you?

[Asker]

Hm. I don't know actually. I try to avoid them.

[doctorwhofan23]

I know it seems to not make sense but the question asker is right I try to avoid girls

[xxspottoxx]

Well, what kind of people are in your social circle?

[Asker]

Hm its mostly musicians.. guys only! I am scared to death to talk to a girl.

[xxspottoxx]

Well, are there any female musicians at your school? If you are in class with them just introduce yourself and because music is common ground you shouldn't get too lost for words.

I know that girls can always seem completely unaproachable,b ut most of us are too nice to beat you to a pulp the frist time you say "hi", you'll find that when you have something in common with a girl and its something you like both to talk about, she should be quite nice.

[Asker]

I am just so shy.. always thinking about how someone would react if I would talk to them :(

[xxspottoxx]

Well, I am a slightly shy gal, but I am always happoy to meet people. Chances are you'll meet a gril like that and they would be eager to have a nice convo about their interests...

[Asker]

I am way too shy to initiate contact with a girl.. at least for now. IT's better just to ignore them for some years, until I grow out of my shell.

[xxspottoxx]

Okay, I completely understand that, well whenever your ready to intiate a convo just message me and I can help you okay...good luck in the future buddy xx

[john5246]

bro, buy holister clothes or w/e the dopes at your school think is cool, or try to be part of some clique by wearing dark makeup and sh-t like that

in HS you're surrounded by idiots, it's either beat em or join em, up to you, good luck.

[xxspottoxx]

Oh bull sh*t!

[john5246]

@xxspottoxx

no it could help him, and it's always good to stay looking flyyy

[Anonymous]

go for the guys

[Asker]

I am not gay, or bi

[Anonymous]

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