Why does a guy follow you on social media if they know you aren't interested in them?

[Anonymous]

[bobalife]

From experience and my knowledge, usually they’d hope for something to change with me.. they enjoy following my posts/stories on my pics/videos.. or they’re just attracted to me 🤷🏼‍♀️ lol.

[Asker]

Should I follow them back?

[bobalife]

It’s your choice :)

[JayBones]

90% of the people we interact with aren't interested in us. Probably more. I didn't know that being interested was a prerequisite to social interaction. It's called social media not whose interested in me media.

[Paul_in_Indy]

In my experience, “not interested” is a flexible state. If I stick around and play my card right, we could still end up in bed together.

Besides, I want to see her pics, don’t I?

[Biancam13]

Probably because he thinks you're hot/pretty. You don't need to be interested in him and he will still want to see your pics because guys like to look at pretty girls.

[Asker]

Would you follow them back?

[Biancam13]

If I was not interested? No. But only if I barely knew him so therefore had no reason to follow him. If he was a friend and I was still not interested? Yes, I would follow him back but not because I like him.

[Asker]

This guy is more like a failed talking stage. Following him back would send him the wrong message, even if it's just TikTok?

[Biancam13]

Well you can follow him back if you know him, everyone follows everyone back it's not a big deal. But obviously if he tries anything you can put up a boundary there. He can't say you lead him on or anything over a follow back

[Asker]

Got it. So if he was to message me, I should ignore him?

[Biancam13]

Yes!

[Radiate143]

Because he knows people can change their minds. Also, women think men can't size them up or men can't figure us out. Not true. Men are very VERY calculating.

[Somoneelse]

Maybe just because you have nice pictures on it (is in most cases the reason), he just follows random people or to be friendly

[Asker]

Should I follow them back?

[BoopBoopBeep]

Same as 90% of the guys on there, just looking for something to rub one out to later.

[sheikalana]

Just for followers. Maybe he likes the content you post.

[Asker]

He doesn't really care about followers

[jahaims]

To try to creep out of the friend zone and or to jack off to your content

[Asker]

Should I follow them back?

[nawtee_me]

To spy on you and see who you are interested in, or to see if your girlfriends are single…

[Asker]

Should I follow them back?

[litty736]

Perhaps he loves the challenge of "winning" the woman over

[Asker]

Would you follow him back?

[litty736]

If I'm not interested then I won't follow him back

[Asker]

You have to be interested in them to follow back?

[litty736]

Nope

[exitseven]

Hope springs eternal.

[Asker]

Should I follow him back?

[Danny_dan92]

They think it’ll change

[Asker]

Should you follow them back or just let them follow you & keep it moving?

[Danny_dan92]

Do you like the boy?

[Asker]

Not romantically. We talked before for a while and nothing transpired

[Danny_dan92]

Up to you then

[Asker]

I'm thinking about it and I wonder what's the point? He doesn't really post and if I follow him it would give him access to me

[Danny_dan92]

Him following you gives access to you

[Asker]

You're right I forgot to mention that. I gain nothing by following him then.

[Danny_dan92]

There you go

[Fireguy17]

probably just voyeuism

[robocop666]

cause its fun to follow hot women

[Asker]

Should I follow them back?

[robocop666]

do whatever the fuck you want

[FlatTech26]

For Hope

[Asker]

Is it a good idea to follow back?

[FlatTech26]

Depends if you want ego massage of validation then yes if you are very clear then No