Guys, how would you handle this?

[Zavarakatranemia]

Let's say a girl that you know has a crush on you , asks you out, casualy for a cup of coffee. You don't want to pursue a romantic relationship with her but you appreciate her as a person. You are not close friends either. What do you say? Do you say yes to not let her down? Or do you say no to not make her get her hopes up?

[236color]

I was going to say I don't know because it's never happened to me, but then I remembered. I did talk to her, tell her I was flattered but not Interested.

[Tstrbrainer]

Never happened to me, but I'll say yes if I have a chance of getting laid

[Zavarakatranemia]

but you don't want a relationship. So you'll sleep with her knowing she has feelings for you?

[Tstrbrainer]

Did this happen to you?

[spartan55]

I would politely decline.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I'd just be honest with her

[BLP11520]

Say yes and be truthful

[Zavarakatranemia]

you mean say yes to coffee and tell her while you are getting that coffee "Ι am not interested in a romantic relationship with you"? Ι mean it's honest, but it's a little harsh don't you think? Wouldn't it be better to just say no to coffee hoping she'll get the hint?

[BLP11520]

I guess

[BLP11520]

Dm me

[maj1nall]

I wouldn't say no to him

[Zavarakatranemia]

why not?

[maj1nall]

If it's a beautiful, sexy woman who knows what she wants😏

[Zavarakatranemia]

lol that's not on the hypothesis, the hypothesis says you are not inetersted :P but I like your response

[maj1nall]

To give you a short and concise answer, I would say yes😂

[maj1nall]

So, If I were him, I'd say yes to you 🤭

[maj1nall]

If I saw him, I'd say: Cmon man, you can't refuse a woman like that🤭

[maj1nall]

Be smart, man 🤭

[Zavarakatranemia]

oh you are too kind, thank you. He didn't refuse, he actually said yes. I just don't know why he said yes :P If he likes me or if he is just being kind.

[maj1nall]

Time will tell🙂