My boyfriend asks when he payed his water bill?

[Anonymous]

He doesn't want to live with me (we have been together for 3 years) always asks for personal space and personal time

I stay maybe 2-3 days at his house then

He comes and stays some days at mine

Thats how we do it...

He randomly calls me to ask:where is my razor? where is my charger? if i remember if there is any tea or sugar left? Where is his water bill?

All this question you think a husband asks his wife

Wtf he asks me That while refusing to live with me?

[Sameone]

Maybe he is fake this he want to show you how much you are important in his life
It's normal thing all
The women aim in relationship whit her. Most of my time in her place clean and cook and fix some stuff and she always call me to ask about her stuff
Some things whe she come to my place

[Asker]

Really?
If im so important why he said he sometimes needs time to himself and to be on his own when he feels miserable (now he feels kinda depressed)
Doewnt want to spend time with me, doesn't want me to stay with him
doesn't talk to me whole day

[Sameone]

We are man's we also have something like Menstrual period. Sometimes i want to be alone.
Even if my girl want to sleep night whit me i tell her no but when i go to bad i just keep imagine aim hugging her
Also man's when they having bad time they like to be alone not like girls

[Asker]

Wby you wanna be alone
I dobt get it
Just 6 days ago he was saying
Im his priority
Im the most important thing
Etc etc that he loves me
Now its 3 days since he doesn't talk to me

[Sameone]

It's a normal thing. Maybe he told you that so you know your value. Now he wants to be alone. Maybe he's preparing something bigger for you, like a partnership or living together or a marriage proposal from you. Be patient with him. It's only 3 days. It could even reach a week or two. Maybe he's testing you. Why don't you call? Hey, does he always have to call you?

[Asker]

He ignores me
He has health issue
doesn't want help refuses me

[Sameone]

It's so complicated now

[Sameone]

Thank you for MHO

[Alex-Snow]

It sounds like he is using you a bit. You two need to decide if you want to live together or just staying friends with benefits. How is the sex with him?

[Asker]

He said its amazing

[Alex-Snow]

He said it is amazing... what about you?

[Asker]

Its good yes

[Anonymous]

You need to remove this guy from your life. He is wasting your time.

[Asker]

Why do you think so

[Iron_Man]

What do you mean when he paid his water bill speaking of water bills my water bill yesterday has gone up to $388.50 every 3 months and I live alone I have a bad underground leak

[Asker]

Yes... if i remmeber when he payed it
Or where is a paper is
We get sent everymonth
We live in Spain its e ery 2 month and its around 70E
Way cheaper living here than in US and better in general
I moved here 5 years ago

[Iron_Man]

It might be cheaper, but doesn’t mean that it’s better

[Asker]

1000 times better!!!
US seems like 3d world compared to this little village I live (Ronda)

[Iron_Man]

I don’t think so. Anyway, have a nice day ma’am.

[Iron_Man]

I’ve been to Europe, I know

[jahaims]

So no question