A guy asked me to be his girlfriend and after 1 month he's trying to get intimate, does he only want sex?

[cdimples99]

How can I tell if this guy asked me to be his girlfriend only to have sex. We are in a long distance relationship.

[firenine909]

Ask him if he wants to do anything non sexual and if he keeps changing the topic to sex he’s interested in only that probably

[slatyb]

Don't worry about that. Do you want to have sex with him?

[cdimples99]

not until 8 months

[slatyb]

Then don't. Why 8 months? That's a long time. Personally after about two months I would conclude that a woman had little interest and we were sexually incompatible.

[Pterodon]

How long have you had a relationship with him?

[cdimples99]

We've talked for 3 months and have been boyfriend/girlfriend for 1 month

[Pterodon]

For a ldr that’s soon

[eagle1951]

sounds like it