Why do mėn sign up for sugar dating apps if they are not looking for sugar relationships - sugardaddymeet?

[Anonymous]

Hello,

I'm a female and signed up for suggardaddymeet website. I thought I might be able to do it but let me tell you-absolutely not.

I met a guy there and we texted on whatssapp for a month (he lives far away, he is young but has got a few successful businesses). Texts were usually long.

After a month of texting I deleted my profile, decided I don't want sugar relationships (never done but it's just not for me) and I texted him saying that. Reason being I felt guilty because we texted so much back and forth.

He reply was that he signed up for this website looking for a woman who he could mentor / teach. A woman who would be interested in a company of a successful and handsome man lime himself (his words). He said he is not looking for a sugar relationship.

I said that's fine but I'm not looking for anything causal. His response was that he is not looking for anything causal either lol

He explained that he signed up for a sugar website because women here are ok with dating guys from long distance. This alone tells me he is looking for hook ups in cities he's visiting or am I wrong?

I'm frustrated by this. Honestly thought he'd just block me or say "bye"

Why are men like this?

[Billlewis]

You're more likely to be successful pursuing a relationship with a submissive male pay pig than a traditional sugar daddy, in my opinion.

[Asker]

Did you read the question?

He claims to not be a traditional suggar daddy and I'm not looking for this type of relationship.

Nice job calling men pigs... You must be proud of yourself

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, you are correct.

[jahaims]

He was looking for people who are easy to manipulate. A dumb girl who uses her body to get what she wants is easy to manipulate

[Asker]

That is what I'm thinking now which is just... Sad.

I understand men who look for sugar (paid) relationships - that's fine.

But in this case he made it clear that he's looking for women at a longer distance fr where he lives. (he set up his profile for this purpose) so seems like he wants girls at different corners of the country living in places he often travels to that he could visit.

The part where he is trying to play a charming man who is looking for some thing is what ticked me off.

It's ok if you're looking for something causal, be transparent about it.

But of course he understood that I wouldn't be ok with that so here we go...

[firenine909]

Because he’s rich and looking for something

[Asker]

Yes but he is looking for a casual relationship but keeps claiming be is looking for something serious.
On his profile it specified that he is a sugar daddy.

Something in this case is casual and far away. He said he's not using regular websites because women here don't want to date long distance.

And then kept claiming he is not looking for hookups.

I told him I hope he finds what he's looking for. A bit tired from the lack of transparency from men...

[firenine909]

I think he wants to meet up with women who might be long distanced but do something more serious. Think you’re looking at this wrong

But I don’t know fully. Do you like older men?

[Asker]

I don't think that's the case.
Yes, I do like older men (about 5-6 years older) but he is actually my age!!

I don't ser why a man would sign uo for sugar dating app, for this

[firenine909]

Do you want a sugar daddy?

[Asker]

Nooo I already specified this in the question

[firenine909]

Well ask him what you want then. What are you like as a girl?

[laly520]

time wasters