Is it normal for guys to eat the rest of your food on a first date?

[Anonymous]

Not like dinner or lunch…. Maybe something small like pastries or a warm snack.

I guess I wasn’t really eating out of nervousness… but it was good lol

Like we’re just talking and he reaches over and eats

it wasn’t in a rude way at all

im just curious

[worldscolide]

Yeah there is no way i would do that.

My wife and i just went on a breakfast date. She got these special french toast, It was Banana bread french toast.. Let me tell you it was hard for me not to ask for any.. But she offered me a bite so i took said bite.. But to answer your question no, its not normal, its kind of rude if he didn't ask first. We have a rule in our house though, if take out left overs are in the fridge for more than 48 hours, they are fair game. It goes both ways too, If my food is in there more than 48 hours, they become fair game too.

[Joshydavid25]

I wouldn't say so.. He seems like he gets comfortable with people easily, maybe he was trying to act that way with you, and maybe he could have been really hungry.. But, I'm thinking he was trying to test how comfortable you were with him..

[Asker]

Ik he’s too smooth…. He probably courts a lot of women… no nervousness with him. But he didn’t like me it’s whatever

[Joshydavid25]

Damn, that's too bad.. He seems like he does court a lot of women..

[Asker]

But he’s 37 so maybe that’s why

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, that could've played a big factor..

[Ms_Facesitter]

I don't know. If I'm full he can have the rest of it, no problem. I just don't want having to defend my plate to get a bite in 😂

[rachel776]

if there's chemistry they can do whatever they want

[Asker]

Ikr It felt endearing tbh

Too bad it didn’t work out. He’s probably just really good with women

[blueonblack22]

Of all the things to worry about on a first date that’s probably the least of them. It’s not a “sign” of any sort.

He probably was just really hungry :).

[SotiCoto]

Not if you're still eating it. But if you're done and haven't finished it all, it would be wasteful not to finish it up.

[Iron_Man]

No I don’t do that. She takes it home like Chinese food

[Anonymous]

No, it's a rude act

Doc Santoro did that to Phil 'shah of Iran' Leotardo, that act got him executed in the mafia power struggle of '06/'07

[laly520]

its not a polite act but its ok

[spartan55]

Did he ask first?

[Asker]

I mean he paid and I didn’t know what I wanted so I told him I’ll get whatever he gets. So he ordered different things and we shared

[spartan55]

Okay you aren't being clear. Was he eating off your plate the whole time? You eating off his? DESCRIBE THE SITUATION

[Asker]

He just reached over a took a piece of what ever I had

[spartan55]

"it wasn't in a rude way"
Honey, the entire act of reaching over and helping himself to your food is incredibly rude. Is this your first date like ever? No, not normal, and hopefully you won't be seeing that slob again.

[spartan55]

You thought it was 'endearing'? Oh my... 🙄

[Asker]

I wasn’t eating it. I guess he didn’t want to waste it

[spartan55]

Wow, that dude is an unmannered moron. Why didn't you eat?

[Asker]

I couldn’t decide what I wanted so I told him that I’ll just get whatever he gets because he asked me what I wanted

So he ordered some things and we shared it

[spartan55]

Sounds like a great time.

[Asker]

He ghosted

But at the end he offered to pay for my Lyft home or he was going to take me

[spartan55]

That's standard basic stuff.

[Asker]

Oh I didn’t know

[Asker]

I post suggestive pictures and he asked if my mother and father would approve

[spartan55]

Oh it's you again.

[Asker]

Who?

[spartan55]

You.

[Asker]

What about me? Or is you their name?

[spartan55]

I remember some of your other posts

[Asker]

No could be a similar situation

[spartan55]

Nope. Why are you still carrying on about this shithead. Hasn't it been a while?

[Asker]

Becauseeeeee i still feel like shitttttt

My self esteem has not recovered

[spartan55]

You went out once?

[Asker]

In my life… once in my life

[spartan55]

You aren't ready for any sort of relationship.

[spartan55]

Explain to me why you can't get over a guy who didn't even like you

[Asker]

Well why didn’t he like me

[spartan55]

Why does it matter? You think every single person you encounter throughout your life is going to like you?

[Asker]

Hurt me feelings and tell me why

I think I’m perfect and too good for him. He’s dumb for not wanting me

[spartan55]

@asker
That's a shitty attitude. No one is too good for anyone else.

[Asker]

I was joking

[spartan55]

Sure you were

[Danny_dan92]

No wasting

[Asker]

Right lol but it felt more endearing if anything

We were sharing

I don’t want him to waste his money

It was expensive

[Danny_dan92]

Good girl. You understand

[Asker]

Lmaooo boy idgaf

[Danny_dan92]

You’re unnecessarily getting excited.

[Asker]

Excited? How

[Danny_dan92]

It’s very apparent

[Asker]

I don’t understand what you mean by excited

[Danny_dan92]

Don’t worry little one, you’ll figure it out someday.

[Asker]

We don’t talk anymore so I’m curious

[Danny_dan92]

Not sure what you mean by “we”

[Asker]

I meant “me and the guy”

[moneymagnet24]

Wtf 🤣🤣🤣