What does it mean when a guy says “if I wanted to date I could’ve had you”?

[Anonymous]

[Biancam13]

He sounds arrogant. Arrogance is actually insecurity masking itself, it's different from true confidence. I would consider arrogance a red flag.

He could be trying to fake "confidence" in order to impress you and try and get you to be into him. I've seen that happen.

[TommyMountainFigure]

It depends on the circumstances by which he said it.

If he was joking about, and he was liked by the girl for his flirting? it could be CLASSED as flirting. If however he was serious, and not joking? Then It means he is obnoxious, assuming and has too high opinion of himself, meaning he should be avoided at all costs!

[ProbablyClueless]

Sounds pretty arrogant. He's saying that he could have dated you if he felt like dating

[provokeesmokee]

He salty, lol. And insecure about his ability to pull.

Trying to take it out on you.

Lemme guess, you rejected him?

[Rosexøxø]

Most likely: easy

potentially: gullible/ naive/ ignorant/ innocent

possibly but probably not:

Low confident / self esteem/ easily distracted/ easy to manipulate?

[Rosexøxø]

What’s mostly clear is that he doesn’t care for the lady he told this to and right to her face.

He’s either careless, period.

Or careless and assuming you won’t do much of anything or reply because you’re seen as the too “naive” type.

You’d put up with his bad behavior towards you if both were in a (toxic) relationship

And you’d put up with this bad behavior of saying why or explaining why you both are not in a valuable relationship together.

He just doesn’t seem
To have this for you. Sorry

🌹💖

[bobalife]

I’d laugh….. no… no thank you, next.
Very douchey and self-center.

[sheikalana]

Means he thinks he could've dated you if you wanted to.

[Radiate143]

Ugh. He's an ass. Nagging. He will be a crap dare and an even worse boyfriend.

[dustybiker2]

He thinks a lot of himself.

[236color]

He's an arrogant asshole.

[sawno]

He thinks he is above you.

[strateguy632]

that he is too busy for dating.

[slatyb]

It means he's an arrogant ass.

[Anonymous]

He is full of himself.

[Rosexøxø]

Ould def be manipulation

[Rosexøxø]

Could*

[laly520]

means he is a jerk

[Yannae]

A guy with an ego.

[CallmeTheKnight]

He don’t like you