Men, how often do you text women you like?

[Rainwavy]

There is a guy I like. By like I mean I like to hang around him, talk to him, and overall interested. But he doesn't text me as often as I would think a person who likes someone should. However, I know we are working individuals with lives. It seems we both like our space. I take that into consideration. But if you like someone wouldn't you want to know how their day goes or at least text good morning or good night to let the person know you are thinking of them?

[SolitarySolace]

I haven’t texted a woman I liked in years. I honestly ignore women I like and turn them down if they decide to ask me out. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Rainwavy]

But if you like them and they like you back wouldn't you want to date them? Why do you ignore them?

[SolitarySolace]

All of my exes cheated on me. A girl I was friends with who I liked falsely accused me and slapped me with an ex parte PPO giving her the power to have me arrested whenever she wanted on our tiny campus and I was sick to my stomach every day afraid I’d bump into her while trying to avoid her I had to avoid entire parts of campus. Why would I want to risk something else happening? 🤣 Besides they’d be happier without me in their life either I have too much baggage.

[Rainwavy]

I am sorry to hear that. I hope you are able to over come your trauma. Eventually be able to express your feelings to someone you like.

[SolitarySolace]

I’d rather not. I’m asexual so not interested in sex or having children. I believe women gain power over men through sex anyway. I also am opposed to marriage. Women are the only ones who benefit from marriage. Why would I want to express my feelings to some bitch even if I like her if there is no end goal?

[Rainwavy]

👍🏾

[Anonymous]

I see her and talk to her everyday so no need for texting except some cutr good night texts

[Opinion Owner]

Cute*