Guys do you text with your female friends everyday?

[catelyntje]

Even when you're in a relationship?

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If yes what can you possibly talk about everyday?

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+1 y

Okay maybe I should be more clearer
You're only dating your girlfriend for a month and you make a new female friend after only dating for a month with your girlfriend. Do you talk to your new friend everyday? Also you find her very attractive. Isn't that strange?

[SteppingOnRoses]

My opinion on all of this, after what I have read, even in comments, is that he wasn't very interested in you.

Or he was but the interest faded. Not your fault. Just happened... maybe he wasn't serious from the start... my guess. A serious guy wouldn't behave like this.

He would tell you he is no longer interested and not string you along.

He wouldn't start talking to new "friends" just a month in the relationship.

Also... what girl friend does he need to talk to everyday? If he was into you for real, he'd be occupying his time with you everyday, at least in the 1st months, barely

[SteppingOnRoses]

leaving him time to talk to any other girl on a daily basis.

also he is walking around saying he's single... he's so not concerned on even working things out with you. to him you were just an available option. not a priority.

and wtf does he get off on saying he is talking to a friend he's attracted to? no consideration for your feelings whatsoever

ah and he hid it too at 1st

girl so many red flags wtf dump him!

[catelyntje]

Like for real preach exactly what I have been wondering this whole time why doesn't he just tell me his interest faded why does he string me along and pretend like I'm crazy. As if it's normal to talk to a new friend everyday thank you!!

[SteppingOnRoses]

no it isn't normal. especially a new friend. and it is not a good sign that he got so defensive. you have a lot of reasons to doubt him. if he cared he would be taking away all your doubts. thing is i dont think he can...

[catelyntje]

Yes which he isn't he rather talks behind my back then too work it out. I'm pretty sure he can't too
Thank you so much

[SteppingOnRoses]

no problem

I just dont think he'd be so dismissive of your feelings if he cared not to hurt you.

so it deffinitly isn't a good sign.

i hope u find someone that better suits you and knows better than going around talking behind his gfs back as revenge...

[catelyntje]

It's true I know I never do that with him
Thank you for your kind words 😊

[SteppingOnRoses]

:) I hope you do what's best for you

and i know how difficult and confusing these situations can be. so i just wanted to shed some light on what i think is happening. you can, although, probably bennefit from one last calm and honest talk with him before you part ways. to make sure there are no loose ends.

[catelyntje]

Hmmm yeah I'm really conflicted

Did you encounter a situation like this too?
I guess you're right but honestly they way how he's ignoring me and being passive aggressive talking about me I don't know if I want to make to first move. He will probably just ignore me. But that's just something I have to figure out but you're right tho it would be best to just talk it out with him

[SteppingOnRoses]

yes, I advise that

since breaking off without talking can be a mistake

[catelyntje]

True you're right

[SteppingOnRoses]

and my situation wasn't exactly like yours

but there were some misunderstandings involved that without talking would have stayed misunderstandings and would have been a mistake to break up.

In your case I am not saying breaking up is a mistake since I see many worrisome behaviours on his part. Still I think it is always good to talk all of it out before ending somethign with somone. It's a lesson I have learned.

[SteppingOnRoses]

then you can take your own conclusions aftet said talk and decide on what's best to do.

[catelyntje]

Ooh I get it your situation was probably more complexed than mine

Yes I will!

[SteppingOnRoses]

Good luck

If you wish, you can let me know how all went once it's solved.

[catelyntje]

Thanks I need it

Yeah of course I will❤️

[SteppingOnRoses]

Thank you for MHO

I hope things are getting solved bit by bit?

[ebbyeb]

I think most guys would be tickled pink to be given attention from more than one female, especially if he finds them attractive.. So a female friend would most likely be an exciting addition to his life.. So he'll most likely try to keep her around and stay in touch with her. Maybe not text everyday.. Depends on the guy and his motives and how he views relationships.. But he'll most likely text every now and then at the very least. If he's super serious about his relationship, though, he might not talk to her at all or rarely. Hope this helps :)

[catelyntje]

But that's the thing he does talk to her everyday

[ebbyeb]

Hmm... Well.. He's either an extremely friendly guy, happy for a friendship, or he doesn't realize that what he's doing is causing this kind of a situation. Some guys are just oblivious to this kind of thing 😅 If you haven't brought it up yet, try doing that and simply asking him about it and alerting him of the situation

[catelyntje]

I brought it up many times and he doesn't care he calls me jealous and controlling

[ebbyeb]

What? Well gee.. That doesn't sound like a good situation.. I definitely don't see it as controlling.. But jealousy is probably a part of it.. But it's not exactly a bad thing.. Since ofc you'd be jealous of he's always giving some other girl attention like that. It's not cool on his part to be doing this stuff.. If he really cared he'd most likely reconsider your feelings and step back a bit and listen to you. Just ask him how he'd feel if the situation played out just the opposite. He'd probably not like it at all and feel jealous as well.

[catelyntje]

I did and you know what he said that he completely trusts me and knows I won't do it and that I should do the same
Can you believe that shit trying to make it like I'm at fault

[ebbyeb]

Wow that's completely ridiculous. This whole thing is just getting out of hand.. Other than this situation, though, is he a good bf? Like a good person that you trust? If not.. I don't know things don't seem to be heading a good direction rn :/

[catelyntje]

Yeah I know it's messed up
Yeah he is very caring also but I don't know when it comes down to this

[ebbyeb]

Yeah it's definitely really a pickle rn.. Does it make hanging out with him and talking with him feel strained and/or is it awkward? Does he put much effort into the relationship? If not, personally, I advise you as my good friend to cut things off sooner than later if he's going to stay completely unreasonable :/

[catelyntje]

When we're not fighting it's not awkward and I enjoy talking to him it's just the way he just completely dismisses my feelings
You're right I gotta think hard about it thank you 😊

[ebbyeb]

Ah yeah I feel ya! Well that's good at least! :) but I really don't like that he's totally dissing you like that :/
Yeah ofc! You're very welcome fam :)

[catelyntje]

Me neither thanks for your concern

[nowhere_dani]

I'd wondered this about one of my guy friends because he'd text me every single day. We'd text several times a day every day AND we worked together. I never had that before. It was different. Then the inevitable sorta happened and we became friends with benefits -- only for me to later learn that he'd been with someone the whole time. How the hell did he manage to do that while living with someone?

[nbbn5]

if i am dating someone i can text my other female friend but i will tell the girl i am dating about the other female friend with whom i chat and will make sure she is comfortable about it but it will be normal friendly chat no flirting and other things but if a guy does same and is attracted to the other girl then its a problem then maybe it means he is trying both the girls and will dump one girl after few days and will go after the right girl so he is just using both of the girls i think

[catelyntje]

That's exactly what I'm thinking

[nbbn5]

if it is happening with you so you should just calm down for a bit and look what happen, no point discussing this topic with the guy you are dating it will alert him and will hide more things

[catelyntje]

He already knows he called me jealous and controlling we fought about it and haven't talked for a couple of days

[nbbn5]

you are right for your part i will also be worried if the girl i am dating is attracted to a boy and texting him and wait about what he does and if he wants you he will definitely talk to you
just be calm , anger and desperate to know behaviour will worsen things

[nbbn5]

and sorry for the delay in reply

[catelyntje]

It's okay at least you answerd lol
Yeah you're right but the thing is this isn't the only time we fought about it so yeah he just doesn't care

[nbbn5]

but if its too long like this you should leave the hopes sometimes somethings are not meant to happen but you will find better people who you deserve you are a nice girl
no matter whatever happens to us we should think positive i never dated a girl in reality but i am thinking positively that some girl on this planet will be willing to go out with me some day will and accept me so just think positive everything happens for a good reason

[catelyntje]

Thank you maybe I should just leave it like you say not everything is meant to happen
You're a good guy I'm sure you'll find a girl someday
Yes I think I should think more positive too

[nbbn5]

thank you, and if you want to ask anything you can PM me you are very much welcome

[catelyntje]

Yess I will nice of you 😊

[nbbn5]

👍😊

[cragbanna]

Yes, depending on how close I am with the friend. Of people I speak to regularly (At least once every 2 weeks), There are easily 3 girls to every 1 guy. Of girlfriends I've had, one was cool with it because she trusted me and knew how deep in the friendzone I was. The other broke up with me because she didn't like that I had female friends so I said try and accept my friendships or go.

[catelyntje]

What if you got to know that friend after you were with your gf?

[cragbanna]

Like if while being in the relationship I got that friend. I'm sure the girl would be a lot more open to that friendship as we'd have some degree of trust and no history that she doesn't know about. If it was just that one person to stop talking to, I'd ask why and set groundrules

[catelyntje]

Yeah but what if you talked to that girl after just one month dating your girlfriend and talk to her every single day? Is that possible or is he cheating?

[cragbanna]

Talking to someone of the opposite gender isn't cheating. If they were sexting or sending nudes then yeah but just being a mate is fine. It doesn't matter what the girl sends him, it all depends on how the guy reacts. If he feels the girl has got the wrong impressions he'll say look I have a girlfriend or I'm seeing someone. If she's trying it on with him then he'll walk away and value the relationship he has already more. He'll be open to showing you the texts between them if there's nothing to hide

[catelyntje]

I know but he never showed me their texts also he didn't tell her that we were dating. When I asked him about it he said it just simply didn't came up in the conversation.

[cragbanna]

Maybe he knows that his friendship with her is only going to be that

[catelyntje]

Why didn't he just told her about us then

[cragbanna]

Like he said it may not have come up in conversation because they haven't been talking about relationship kind of stuff. If they've only been chatting for a week or two then likely they've had other stuff to talk about. If you really want her to know that you're together, sit down with your fella and get him to tell her

[catelyntje]

Seems strange to me but thanks

[cragbanna]

If you're dating properly and really making a go of it, forget all you insecurities, he's picked you, he's with you. If he goes off with some random girl kick his ass to the curb because he's shown that he's an ass and he doesn't deserve you.

[catelyntje]

Yeah I guess so but you don't know if he really picked me he could be playing us both

[Yumix]

With my irl female friends I don't text that much. With some of my online friends I do it a lot though. I've known @archiz since October 2015 and we have talked on almost every day since then and I'm not gonna stop talking to her just because I enter a relationship.

[Yumix]

She can has as many friends as she wants and can make new one whenever she wants and I expect the same for me. I think as long as you don't set the wrong focus (you rather talk to your friend than partner) it shouldn't be a huge issue. Of course, maybe you have to reduce it a bit but that's something you have tui figure out together

[Yumix]

And you could also be open about it. Only if you try to hide things you make yourself suspicious and give reasons for jealousy

[catelyntje]

Have you read my updates?

[Yumix]

Yes that's why I added two comments

[catelyntje]

Oh okay well he hide me from her

[Yumix]

If you are just friends then there shouldn't be a reason to hide her. Is he much older?

[Yumix]

You*

[catelyntje]

That's what I thought why can't he just tell her he's dating someone and not that much but yes he's older

[Yumix]

If there were a big age gap it could be that he's afraid of what she might think. Other than that... I don't know. Maybe he doesn't think she's the right one and just waits for a better one. Maybe he's a cheater. Maybe he doesn't expect to be friends for too long with you so he doesn't wanna tell. There are a couple of things that are possible but either way, it doesn't seem right that he's hiding you. Definitely suspicious

[catelyntje]

Yeah maybe that's it but I mean he doesn't have to say how old I am he could had just said he's dating someone she doesn't even have to know who I am. I know right it is suspicious that's what I thought I mean who hides their girlfriend from their new friend that he finds very attractive

[Yumix]

Is he flirty with you? Wants pics? Etc?

[catelyntje]

I'm not the friend tho I'm his girlfriend

[Yumix]

Oh I mixed it up thought you're single 😂 but it doesn't change much on what I said.

[catelyntje]

Well yeah I think I am I mean we fought a couple days ago haven't talked since then and he's walking around calling himself single so then I'm single too I think

[Yumix]

I don't know what you fought about but if that's enough for him to ignore you and call him single then the interest in you wasn't that interest.. Might have just waited for the right moment to move on. I don't know.

Was already afraid I have to hold back but looks like I can hit on you without getting a bad conscience 😏😂

[Yumix]

Wasn't that big *

[catelyntje]

We fought about this whole thing ended with him calling me jealous and controlling. Maybe didn't think about it like that

lol can't believe you bring this up now when I'm in misery lmao joker

[Yumix]

You feel shit. Either my stupid joke makes you feel a tiny bit better for a moment or you just keep feeling shit. But much to lose I'd say 😛 (and I don't think that I've really hit on you before anyway 😛)

[Yumix]

Not* much

Argh shitty auto correct

[Yumix]

Also what did you mean with "Maybe didn't think about it like that"

[Yumix]

Oh wait got it lol

[archiz]

Yeey❤

[xButterflyKisses87x]

I'd definitely be jealous in the same situation, that's not fair if he's hiding you from her "was" that is very suspicious girl... I'd move on for sure and forget him... I don't like it when people just think they can hide shit like that

[catelyntje]

Hahahha yeah it did make it better not going to lie😂
Lmao nope you haven't and you aren't now either

@xButterflyKisses87x pff thank you finally someone who feels the same way. I think I'm going to do that too

[xButterflyKisses87x]

@catelyntje your welcome its just not fair that some people do that tho really, its stupid

[catelyntje]

@xButterflyKisses87x sure is

[Yumix]

@catelyntje ha see, it wasn't that bad 😇 Distraction is the best way to get over things like that. When you're alone you think too much about it and that's the worst you can do. Just hmu if you ever need some distraction ✌

And yes, I haven't done it... yet 😏 we are still in the preparation phase 😛

[catelyntje]

Lmao thanks 😂

Oh yeah are we

[Yumix]

Yes. I first have to make sure that you like me until I make a move 😁

[Yumix]

Before * I

[catelyntje]

Hahahahhahahahaha 😂

[bgowd]

Nah. it's gotta a be more than just a friendship to talk almost everyday. This happened to me but the other way around. A good friend of mine started texting me everyday and got very intimidate while she still had a boyfriend. I gotta tell you it's NOT normal.

[bgowd]

*intimate

[Halucinator]

I may talk to that girl but tell both of them bout each other. If I'm not flirting with that girl, I shouldn't hide it from my girlfriend

[catelyntje]

That's the thing he didn't told her about me

[Halucinator]

Is this happening to you?

[catelyntje]

Yeah

[Halucinator]

What did you do?

[catelyntje]

I confronted him about it and he got angry calling me jealous and controlling

[Halucinator]

What? Total shit!!
Do you have any idea about what Did they talk?
Are you sure he wasn't cheating?

[catelyntje]

I think he is cheating
No I don't know what you could possibly talk about everyday

[Halucinator]

tbh I would say you should try to talk abit n clear your doubts regarding that stuff
Sit together n talk peacefully n if he still acts like he doesn't care, leave that person
It may possibly happen that he wasn't cheating but didn't want to tell you bout her cause you might be suspicious or he may had to tell you what did they talk which he might not wannna tell you.
The reasons are infinite. Faith is the most important thing. If it remains, relationship will persist, if not, it becomes hollow

#LoveGuru😂😂
Actually Inexperienced love guru🤣🤣

[catelyntje]

Hahahah no what you're saying could be right #loveguru hahaha
He didn't tell her about me either tho

[Halucinator]

Ha! maybe😜
But leaving him without a valid reason is unfair
Tell me honestly, do you like him?

[catelyntje]

Without a valid reason? You don't think that's valid?
Would I be with him if I didn't? But not if he keeps acting like this

[Halucinator]

I'm sorry
I mean without knowing complete truth
It's totally upto you, It's your life. You can do anything you want

[Halucinator]

Hey wait!
I'm sorry I didn't notice that he didn't tell her about you too

[catelyntje]

Ohh that's what you meant you I just gotta figure things out
Thanks for the advice

[catelyntje]

Yeah he didn't till recently

[Halucinator]

Welcome😊
by the way Until you reply again, I was scared that I lost a friend😥

[Halucinator]

Anyways best of luck

[catelyntje]

Lmao silly
Thanks!

[Halucinator]

Silly? 😕
My heart was about to come in my hand😜
Jk😂

[catelyntje]

Yeah silly it was just a couple of minutes

[Halucinator]

😝😝😝😝those minutes were like days☹️

[catelyntje]

Hahahah

[Halucinator]

I'll now stop cuz comment box will burst now

[catelyntje]

Lmao ok

[Halucinator]

Okay goodbye😂

[catelyntje]

Byeeeee

[Kylesar]

I don't really have any, but I'm sure I would if they wanted to talk. If my girlfriend has a problem with me talking to my friends, I can show her the text threads and pictures if they're ever sent, then she can either get over it or go.
I've had problems in the past with my girlfriends not wanting me to have female friends. Not happening again. I don't complain about your circle of guy friends

[Arya_Christ]

I don't even text my male friends everyday. what about you?

[Arya_Christ]

maybe he is playing you both.

[catelyntje]

That's what I thought also

[Arya_Christ]

so what are you gonna do now?

[catelyntje]

No idea we haven't talked in a couple of days after our fights. He calls me jealous and controlling only because I'm concerned about this

[Arya_Christ]

you are not controlling. it is your right to doubt that.

[catelyntje]

Thank you he calls himself single now too so I don't know

[Arya_Christ]

move on. if he likes you he will come back to you.

[catelyntje]

Yeah true maybe I should thanks

[TallAnon]

I haven't been in a relationship, but some I text every other week others every other day.

[TallAnon]

Sounds like he's doubting between the two.

[catelyntje]

Right he also didn't tell her he was dating me

[TallAnon]

Just give him a while to notice you're better anyway ;)

[catelyntje]

Thanks hahha

[TheGuyWithTheAnswer]

i try to. their nothing wrong with it. just like females have their guy friends. males have our female friends. doesn't have to be romantic to talk to one another.

[SteppingOnRoses]

yes but everyday... it's fishy

[TheGuyWithTheAnswer]

no not every day just whenever either of you wanna smash

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I used to KiK message a female friend but she stopped contacting me
it hurts when people just can walk out of your life but it happens not much i can do.

[catelyntje]

Yeah that sucks

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah it does and to be honest it was all cause of her age
she's lying about her age. Why can't people just admit
their age? It makes no sense to me.

[catelyntje]

I don't know maybe because it was kik? It does seem strange to lie about something like that yeah

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah i agree

[Atreyu]

dick pics every single day lol

seriously , when I'm bored I text and ask what's going on. share stories of messed up family and then we complain that we haven't hung out in too long

[EmptyVoid]

I don't even if they are very attractive. I don't want my girlfriend to feel jealous or unhappy about it.

[Deadpool76992]

Yeah but out conversations mostly consist of.

"No, I'm right, fuck you"
"Piss off, I'm right you son of a bitch!"
"Fuck you ya bitch"
"Wanna grab a beer"
"Sure"

[catelyntje]

Hahahah wtf

[Deadpool76992]

Yeah, conversations in my friendship group is mainly, jokes, an argument, beer, jokes, arguments etc

[TheEpicIrishman]

Yeah. I have a lot of female friends, some of them are my best friends

[xXHozanXX]

I try to talk with everyone as often as possible... which is like 2days every week 😂. But usually they message me first.

[Johno1967]

yes and because the only female friend I talk to is in a different country. always lots to talk about. but I would stop if my girlfriend wanted me to.

[wrenchrat]

Not while in a relationship I keep it to nonflirtatious comments n those are kept to a minimum outta respect to the one I'm with

[Omar5881]

Yeah they're my friends
If this ain't making you comfortable leave nobody changes his habits for someone else

[Quagmir3]

Yes, when I'm in relationship or otherwise. Pretty close to everyday, or maybe all day one day and not for the next.

[INsomaniac88]

yes I do text them
AND I tell any girl in a relationship before about this

[catelyntje]

Why would do you possibly talk about everyday?

[INsomaniac88]

Oh some female bestie I have I knew since I was 3

We often talk about our love life and shitty moment we had with our partner
We help each other out and make fun of each other

[catelyntje]

Everyday?

[INsomaniac88]

Yes it's everyday
If we don't talk we must be really busy and that rarely happens

[CMcGill]

Yeah. The same stuff I talk about with guy friends. Anything really.

[SunSetInTheEast]

it's strange if it's everyday.. :/

[catelyntje]

Exactly my thoughts

[SunSetInTheEast]

yee :/ bcs it can be different feelings if u talk everyday :)

[catelyntje]

Right feelings get involved

[SunSetInTheEast]

yep so true :)

[AleDeEurope]

Why don't you just break up with him?

[catelyntje]

You think I should?

[AleDeEurope]

I've read the comments and what you have told people and you seem like you're gonna do it

[catelyntje]

But do you think I should? I've seen him saying things behind my back about breaking up too and he already calls himself single

[AleDeEurope]

Has he said things about breaking up? What has he said?
Not trying to be nosy, but I've noticed you've also answered questions saying you're single :/

And from what I've heard, didn't you insult him and accuse him of things he never did? I didn't see you mention that to others here.

[catelyntje]

Yeah he did he said he's going to break up soon because I'm too controlling and he doesn't sees any changes
Yeah because he's saying he's single so I'd be stupid not to draw my conclusions and think I'm not single too

What are you talking about?

[catelyntje]

Oh and what I heard today is that he's asking people around if he should just ignore me instead of just dumping me

[AleDeEurope]

Oh wow, did he really say that? I didn't know :/

Didn't you call him stupid, bitch, hoe?

[catelyntje]

Yeah he did also he goes around and plays a victim saying how I tried him poorly

And honestly I don't know what you are talking about? Stupid bitch hoe? What?

[Yumix]

Just move on and forget about him. It's a waste of time if you have only been dating for a short time and it ended like this.

[catelyntje]

@Yumix yepp do you think he's right @aledeeurope?

[AleDeEurope]

Don't ask me lol it's your life, you decide.

[catelyntje]

But why did you comment then to not give advice?

[AleDeEurope]

I wanted to give advice, but I feel you're not telling the whole story...

[catelyntje]

Why do you feel that?

[AleDeEurope]

Because you're not telling people what you have done wrong.

[catelyntje]

And you know what I have done how?

[AleDeEurope]

I don't know, just saying that no one is innocent... I'm pretty sure you've done some things wrong but you're avoiding that so that people feel sorry for you and they think you're the victim.
Maybe that's why he's acting the way he's acting? I don't know, have you thought about that?

[catelyntje]

Yeez why so defensive?

[AleDeEurope]

I'm not defensive, I'm just pointing out an observation... seems like I was right lol

[catelyntje]

Not really I don't know how you came with that stupid bitch hoe? Seems pretty specific not just a observation

[AleDeEurope]

Hahahah ok

[catelyntje]

Hahhaha ok because you got nothing more to attack me with😕

[catelyntje]

And I don't see how my behaviour can lead to him cheating on me? Victim blamer

[SteppingOnRoses]

Ale... just tell her directly what is you think you saw her doing.

being passive agressive won't help

maybe you even misunderstood... who knows?

[AleDeEurope]

@SteppingOnRoses @Cate How is having female friends cheating, though?

[catelyntje]

That's not the case
The fact that he's making a new friend which is a girl after only dating one month with me, calls her attractive and talks to her everyday since then is
Then when I try to talk about my concerns he dismisses it by calling me jealous and controlling
Now we haven't even talked for almost a week and he talks behind my back how he wants to dump me or if he should just ignore me

[AleDeEurope]

So you shouldn't make female friends if you already have a "girlfriend"? And is it bad that he calls her attractive? I'm pretty sure you've called other guys attractive, haven't you? What you said isn't cheating, because all he has is a friend, that's it.

Did you tell him he shouldn't have any female friends and to stop talking to them?

Why haven't you texted him this week? What are you waiting for? If he really is saying that he wants to ignore you, then that is wrong, he shouldn't do that... but are you 100% sure he's saying that?

[SteppingOnRoses]

im not saying he's cheating cause i can't be sure. but talking to a new female "friend" on a daily basis... and i bet isn't just for 10 to 20 mins...

seems way suspicious

not to mention he has told her he finds her attractive

hasn't mentioned to her that he has a girlfriend

tried to hide it at 1st from the girlfriend

and also instead of maturely reassuring her girlfriend, acts all indignated that she may feel threatned by this behaviour, that isn't very normal.

[SteppingOnRoses]

his girlfriend...

and now goes around badmouthing his girlfriend and saying he's single instead of trying to solv things

sounds to me he wasn't very serious about her from the start and is now showing that

[AleDeEurope]

@SteppingOnRoses So assumptions are good for a relationship? Do you think it's ok to accuse him of cheating just based on assumptions?
What's wrong with finding a female friend attractive? You've never had a male friend you found attractive?

Maybe he didn't mention it till the topic of relationships came up. I've been in situations where I didn't tell my friend I had a girlfriend because we were talking about food or music. Seems kinda weird to just drop the fact you're taken, and irrelevant to the topic, and basically assuming she's into you lol

I'm pretty sure he did reassure her but she didn't believe him xD

[catelyntje]

Sure he can but a guy can't just be friends with a girl he finds attractive that's nonsense also he can make a new friend but talking to your attractive new female friends EVERYDAY is fishy
Sure I call other guys attractive but they aren't my friends and I certainly don't talk to them everyday

No I told him to stop flirting with girls because it makes me insecure

I'm waiting for him to text me I ain't texting him if he's already calling himself single and saying those stuff behind my back. I'd be a fool too
I'm 100% positive he said that

[AleDeEurope]

Not really. You can easily be friends with an attractive person. Just because you can't doesn't mean others can't.
Also, talking everyday isn't a big deal, as you've seen, many other guys do that too.

But how do you know he's flirting if you haven't seen the conversations? :/ Why do you keep making assumptions?

But haven't you said the same things? Haven't you said you're also single? So why put all the blame on him? Sounds quite hypocritical.

[catelyntje]

Yeah sounds so logical
Yes these guys are talking about their friends they know longer then their girlfriend not after their girlfriend and nobody here is calling their friend attractive noticed that too?

Because when I'm with him he flirts with everything and everyone don't play stupid now

I already said that I said it after he called himself single

Honestly why are you so defensive? Are you trying to put your frustrations on me or something?

[SteppingOnRoses]

he's trying to play the devil's advocate

I get what you are saying Ale and there is a small chance she is wrong. That is why I tld her it is best to try to talk to him well before breaking off anything

but tbh his behaviour worries me. because i have seen simmilar patterns before and it usually isn't harmless...

if he's just a month in with his girlfriend id expect him to be more taken with her

its true we r making just assumptions but u are also trying to ignore some obvious red flags here.

either way... they should discuss things well

[AleDeEurope]

@SteppingOnRoses But she just said she's not going to text him, so she's just letting everything fall on him.

You say there's lots of red flags, but all you've heard is her side of the story, you haven't heard his. For all you know, she may be lying...

[catelyntje]

@SteppingOnRoses wondering why he is?

[catelyntje]

Why would I be lying?

[AleDeEurope]

I don't know, because this story seems very one sided

[catelyntje]

Looks like you're looking at the story with a lot of assumptions too from your side?
Still didn't explain how you came up with the stupid bitch hoe?

[SteppingOnRoses]

to me she sounds sincere... but why u think all are lies is what baffles me...

either way im done here.

[hasse4]

yea i do, not everyone but i talk to many 😉

[catelyntje]

How can you talk everyday what do you talk about?

[hasse4]

I usally start with hei, whats up andre ask her about opinions on things and much more ^^ can't write everything down 😉😃

[catelyntje]

Everyday?

[hasse4]

yea ^^

[Regular1]

I text all of my FWBs every day.

[KingOfGaG]

Yeah I enjoy talking with them

[hotstuffSRD]

Not everyday but very often
I'm single though

[gjd47233]

Yes. Always, most of my friends are female

[Anonymous]

yes I do.. but not will all but with some

[CallMeTie]

it depends

[catelyntje]

On what

[CallMeTie]

sometimes ill text them everyday but some times its like every 2 days

[catelyntje]

Then it's not everyday 😂

[CallMeTie]

i guess not

[catelyntje]

Hahahah 😛

[CallMeTie]

haga🙃

[addiesingers123]

my boyfriend does it

[eagle1951]

don't have any

[eagle1951]

cause back when i was dating i talked to her every. we would talk about what we did the day before, and decide what we were going to do that day. and anything else that happened.

[Pizzalover101]

No I don't

[be_fikar]

yes
we do