Guys, Why does he only want me to want him but flirt with pretty much everyone else?

[Anonymous]

I‘m not that bad looking and definitely not worse looking than his past crushes. Also he doesn’t know me well enough to know my red flags and character traits but he rejects me and then tries to keep an eye on me for months but be very open and flirtatious with every other woman. Why does he play with my feelings but is open to everyone else?

[Lynx122]

He probably just doesn't like you.

[Asker]

Then why does he want my attention so badly? He even made me a playlist

[Lynx122]

Maybe he does like you but he's just confused and doesn't know what he's doing I don't know.

[David94358]

How does he reject you?

[Asker]

through text saying he was never that into me

[David94358]

Sounds like he is just a very charismatic charming person that his personality comes across as flirting when that's not really what he is doing, you are reading him as flirting, but that's not what he is trying to do

[Asker]

staring from afar and watching me talk to other people is not my idea of a charismatic and charming person tbh

[David94358]

You said he is very flirtatious with other women right? Some people just had a personality that comes across that way. He told you he is not interested in you, there is no guess work in that.
The answer is he is a very flirtatious guy that was flirtatious with you but is not into you.

[Asker]

No. That does not answer why he so desperately wants my attention

[David94358]

Yes it does, he doesn't want your attention, you are reading him incorrectly.
He is a very flirtatious person that you are reading incorrectly, he told you point blank he doesn't want you.
Men do not operate in subtitles

[David94358]

Stupid autocorrect that was supposed to be men dont operate in subtleties

[Asker]

yes he does want my attention

[David94358]

What do you think this?

[MrZameer]

I don't know

[MrZameer]

Why don't you ask him straight away

[Asker]

Because he lies

[MrZameer]

But why?

[MrZameer]

Why he needs to lie?

[Asker]

I don’t know people lie all the time so the advice „just ask him“ is not helpful

[MrZameer]

Sorry

[MrZameer]

dear can you follow me dear

[Asker]

Dear why dear?

[MrZameer]

So we can talk