Are there any people without problems at all?

Question

I am talking with this very interesting man,

Who doesn’t take life very seriously and often tells me, he feels lucky, he feels like he has an ideal life and he feels happy, content and there’s nothing that he can think of that worries him.

Is there a way for someone to be this worthless or he is just hiding his vulnerabilities?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Everyone has problems , one way or another , some people just have less problems than others , some people bury their problems inside themselves and keep it to theirselves , and some people like to broadcast their problems so others feel sorry for them, almost like a cry for help. Or some people just don’t give a fuck about their problems and try to enjoy life as much as possible , without letting problems really affect them what so ever. and realize it is what it is , shit happens. Bottom line everyone handles their own problems differently. The older I got the more I realized life is too short to allow problems to take over my life and my happiness. Even though at times i feel happiness is hard to grasp I learned to be content with myself and appreciate what I have in front of me , instead of grasping for things that I don’t have in front of me , as much as possibly can and try not to dwell on the negatives as much. We all go through shit in our lives , it just comes down to how you handle that shit in your life. Learning to be content , has lifted a lot of stress off of my own life. Learning to give rather than receive , has helped me see things differently as well and helped me appreciate life more than before. When you learn how to remove your own selfishness, you more than likely will be at peace within yourself. We can’t read each other’s minds and we don’t know what each others’ true intentions are, All we can do is treat someone the same way we want to be treated in return. The best way to do that, is to be Honest , if you can’t be honest , then most people will not be honest with you and not trust you , if your choose to be honest most people will trust you and feel safe by you. People that lie and cheat and backstab and betray are only hurting themselves because they are Selfish people, that only really care about themselves , Every single one of us has selfishness inside of ourselves , when you learn to remove that selfishness, it makes it easier for others to remove that selfishness for you. Learn to give , when you learn to give you will more than likely be rewarded in return one way or another. Even if you are not rewarded you will be respected . If someone is taking advantage of you and using you and lying to you and disrespecting you , just walk away and say Bless Them , Change Me , we can’t control someone else’s actions , we can only control our own.

GuyAnswersGirls123 · Accepted Answer

I think one of the things is that a lot of how happy and content we are in life is not based on the absence of struggles or wealth of material but how we interpret things.

The ultimate ideal of Stoicism as the Stoic sage is to be cheerful and happy even when being roasted alive in the Bull of Phalaris:

Are there any people without problems at all?

I don't think any human being has ever achieved this. It's an ideal as in we're never supposed to get there, just reach for this. Buddhists are similar.

So if he is a practiced Stoic or Buddhist, I can believe him that he is genuinely content in his life and accumulates little in the way of stress or worry despite facing things that cause most people stress or worry.

My wife is this way. She's near Zen-like in her mastery of inner peace and joy. I still have some work to do to catch up to her since I still tend to get pissed off every now and then. I'm getting there though and in large part thanks to her example.

Account · Accepted Answer

I think there are people who are less sick than I am and they have a worldview that helps them cope. It is not necessarily a mask. I am glad for these people even though I am unable to understand them at some level.

Chevy1_kb · Accepted Answer

Everyone on this planet has problem not one person on this planet doesn't have a problem in life

lightbulb27 · Answer

I think you mean "worriless" not worthless.

We have a really good life and not many worries, we create it that way. there's always things to deal with and challenges and worries, but minimize them. life is gonna happen.

I know others like us. Some people like drama and without drama, they are unhappy and go looking for more drama.

Mr_twoface · Answer

Yes everyone has some type of vulnerabilities in their lives, but why should he address them, if he believes they are just pitty small things as to all major things happening in today's world? Have we reached a point in time that we have nothing else to talk about/investigare other than being hooked on there vulnerabilities? Is this what getting to know each other means these days, you need to tell me what your problems are so I can make a judgement call whether you are the one for me?

Sometimes when you put your vulnerabilities into the larger context of what's going on with people around you, in your society, in today's world, you don't see it being a problem. And even if it may possibly become a problem in a relationship, it's something you will figure out once you get to know him deeper.

JacobJordan · Answer

If I look at just my own life I don't have anything to worry about. That being said as soon as one realizes how things are for most people it is sad and worrisome. I wouldn't say he is worryless but self centered and that is in and of itself a major cause for him to worried about especially if he intends to have a partner or friends.

steveberno · Answer

I think it is not about having no Problems but more about how He thinks about those Problems.

For example: I ofc do have Problems in many ways. But most of the time I just react calmly and Say "okay let's handle this".

Others would think "oh nooo whyyy I don't deserve this" rather than just Solving it

sawno · Answer

It can definitely happen, if someone is going well on a personal level they may not have any short term worries. If they are politically aware they will have an immense long term worry and most people in the current economy are struggeling to some degree. Personally I am not economically struggeling but I do have some health issues to keep improving so thats primarily where my own worries are.

NathanDavis · Answer

someone with no problems at all... that's just someone you really don't know well... yet

David94358 · Answer

everybody has problems, but some people are just good at going with the flow and dealing with the problems in life and not letting those problems effect them

zagor · Answer

It's probably not that he has no problems but that he doesn't let them get him down. I've known people who were confined to a wheelchair who were much happier than I am.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Yes! They are commonly referred to as liars.

BLP11520 · Answer

Everyone has problems, Rich, poor doesn’t matter male female we all have problems🤔

spartan55 · Answer

Anytime anyone has to remind everyone around them how happy/rich/hot/talented whatever. they lose my respect.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Everyone has problems, but we all cope with them differently, which can cause you to have more or less problems.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Everyone has problems, but the severity and depth of their problems vary considerably. My ex loses her mind if she has a bad hair day, while others are dealing with significant life issues. It's all relative.

MsBrie · Answer

Everybody has some problem rude people, financial, disabilities etc.

Comingback · Answer

Everyone has problems, but not everyone has as much problems as the next guy. Also, how you deal with them is everything.

Iron_Man · Answer

How long have you known him? He could be hiding something

soe11 · Answer

The problem is part and partial of life. It is two sides of the coin.

moneymagnet24 · Answer

I don't even take my breath seriously I know one day my breath will leave me so live fearless.

DJB72 · Answer

Yep. Cemeteries are full of them

dustybiker2 · Answer

Yes. They are all dead.

shortster · Answer

Are you dating Matthew McConaughey?

MrDaveAPSI · Answer

Everybody has their problems

laly520 · Answer

lowkey no

sheikalana · Answer

I doubt.

In_Trance · Answer

I doubt it

eagle1951 · Answer

probably not

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