Why would a guy get jealous of you to other men if he doesn’t like you at all?

[Anonymous]

[teamvic]

Unless you're giving him attention or ass cheeks

It probably wouldn't happen. If it's happening and he says he doesn't care about you. Chances are that's not the complete truth

[Billlewis]

Because just knowing that another guy is enjoying sex with you drives us absolutely crazy.

[Asker]

LOL I don’t have sex with them I’m just talking to them about work and then he would stand up and suddenly want to talk to me when he would ignore me for months

[Billlewis]

I understand, but when he sees you with the other guy, he most likely assumes that you'll be having sex with him eventually.

[Asker]

Dude I only talk to them in a work setting 😂

[Billlewis]

Alright, but you didn't say that in your original post. No need to get mad.

[Asker]

Im not mad

[Anonymous]

Because more than likely he likes you. How do you know he doesn’t? Because he told you? Yes it’s more than likely because he fancies you.

[Asker]

He ignores me and acts rude and is dry when I try to talk to him out of politeness but as soon as he sees me talking to others he wants to be noticed and acts nice

[Opinion Owner]

Does he have a girlfriend?

[Asker]

A wife and a married side chick

[Opinion Owner]

Oh damn lol yes chances are he likes you. Do you have a man?

[Asker]

No I don’t

[Opinion Owner]

Yes chances are he likes you. So when your attention shift to another man that’s when he gets mad, distant, ignores you.

[Asker]

He us just a coworker and this happens in a work setting though. Forgot to mention that in my post

[Opinion Owner]

Yes chances are he likes you. Maybe I’m wrong but that’s usually the case. Would you say your attract a fair amount of men? Pretty? Cute?

[Asker]

No I’m average

[Asker]

and he is usually pretty rude to me

[Opinion Owner]

I wish I could see what you look like. When you say ride what exactly do you mean? Because honestly women can’t take jokes so everything a man does a lot of women consider rude when in reality he isn’t being rude

[Asker]

No he really is rude. He would just cancel meetings or delay them without prior notification, talk in a harsh angry tone with me, forget to say thank you, give short answers when I try to make conversation, walk ahead of me or behind of me instead of next to me, look at his phone constantly when I’m talking to him etc

[Opinion Owner]

Half of that sounds like just the way men are. Looking at his phone while you’re talking seems like something a lot of people do these days. I know I do the same but I’m still listening. Walking she’s did you, well maybe he just walks faster than you. I know I do as well as a number of the men I work w. I know I don’t always say thank you. I think a number of men are that way. I’m not trying to take up for him but in reality that sounds like a lot of things men do in general. Women aren’t use to the direct mentality of men. They see it as being rude. But that’s how a lot of men are w each other. He’s a co-worker or your supervisor?

[Asker]

No trust me, he is completely different with everyone else. Usually be is super chatty, open and charming. With me he is dry, uninterested, distracted and reserved

[Asker]

And honestly walking ahead of someone in a professional setting is just rude. And I’m pretty sure your girlfriend wouldn’t like it either

[Asker]

He is a coworker

[Opinion Owner]

To you it’s rude. To others it isn’t. No I don’t walk w my girl cause I walk fast if we go out. Unless we go to the gym where we both use the treadmill, sure that’s fine. Even in different cultures it’s different. Indian men tend to walk ahead of their women.

[Asker]

Still he is way more polite with everyone else

[Asker]

Yes okay but In Europe walking ahead is considered rude okay?

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. I’m not in Europe. Different locations. Things are different. But at the same time I think women just tend to get offended by a lot of things men do because we’re not the same. So a lot of women react based on how they act in that diction. If he doesn’t do what you would do you say it’s rude. I don’t. My opinion doesn’t make me right over yours. Just how men and women operate. But regardless. Have you ever done anything to him at work? Embarrasses him? Maybe for a position he wanted?

[Asker]

No I never embarrassed him

[Opinion Owner]

My only conclusion is that he likes you. It could be that he’s doing what a lot of girls do. They don’t like the person but they like the attention they get. Then they wonder why did he stop following me. It’s like wait a minute you didn’t even like him now that he’s not up your ass you’re wondering why? So it could be that. But a lot of times if a man is acting that way where he gets mad or jealous, ignores you or something like that when you’re taking to other men, it’s cause he likes you. But do you like him?

[Asker]

No. And the thing is he ignored me most of the time and only pays attention when he sees me talking to other men. When that happens he suddenly wants to chat with me

[Opinion Owner]

Again sounds like he likes you.

[Asker]

Then why does he gossip about me to his side chick?

[Tim2nice]

He likes you. Physical attraction makes us behave silly

[laly520]

he wants attention for himself

[Anonymous]

Oh he likes you

[Asker]

Then why is he rude? He is just a coworker by the way

[Anonymous]

Payback.

[Asker]

can you elaborate?

[Opinion Owner]

I could but I won't.👍