Are attractive women always popular even if they are not social or just weird/boring?

[Anonymous]

I feel like people don’t want to engage with me and label me as weird for the smallest things like breathing too loudly, walking too fast etc. as if they are desperately looking for excuses to not like me without even knowing me. I’m oftentimes overlooked and forgotten in social situations. Men tend to avoid me even in the workplace and seem not interested in me ever but make flirty jokes with other women. I know attractive women who always claim to to weird stuff and still have men mesmerized my them no matter how boring or unsocial they are and they always seem to make friends easily. Are people really that superficial? Am I just treated like an outcast because of my looks and do pretty women really get away with everything and never have to make an effort to be interesting to men?

[Anonymous]

Everyone is superficial. It’s literally a human trait to be most drawn to things we can’t have easily, or attractive things. Yes, women, men, anything that is attractive are put on a pedestal. A luxury car with many issues will still be valued more than a Honda with zero issues just because it is perceived that the luxury vehicle is more appealing to the eye, and that it’s expensive.

Speaking as an attractive woman, yes, attractive people get away with a lot. I am autistic and socially inept. It is seen as quirky and mysterious, whereas my unattractive counterpart it would be weird and off putting. Attractive privilege can even be seen in serial killers, as they are romanticized despite their horrible crimes, whereas the unattractive one will be a “monster” for the same exact crime. The level of dismissal I’ve seen for Ted Bundy for the absolutely horrendous crimes he’s done is astronomical, and he only gets away with it because he’s attractive.

Anyway, I write all that to say, it’s better to join the game than revolt away from it. Every woman can be attractive with effort. This is a hard wired human trait, hard wired in like humans wanting to be social with one another, and that will likely never change. You’re superficial, I’m superficial we’re all superficial. It’s life.

[laly520]

would say it depends on personality she got

for example some attractive women have no personality n despite em being pretty they would be boring n won't be getting attention on long run, usually just at first when they catch the eye then once they start getting to know em they get bored of em

[DryGermanGuy]

Obviously not. If you give off backstabbing, bitchy or generally antisocial vibes, it doesn't matter how you look, people will avoid you. I have personally met two or three of such examples.

[Anonymous]

I’m sure it’s just shyness vibes or something. How do you look?