Why do so many guys here hate women?

[Anonymous]

Why don’t they go on a site with only men? Ik they’re sexist or trolling. If you’re fr sexist I wanna know why educate me Do y’all fw the quote from Barbie? Everyone hates women. Men hate women and women hate women. It's the one thing we can agree on. When she said that I felt emotions😔I’m posting this anonymously cause I’m scared

I don’t know

🙏🙏🙏

[Cheapskate]

I don't hate women, but I will admit there was a time when I did.

For me, it was because I had always been neutral on women and attracted to some women and felt protective towards them.

But then, growing up, I just heard so much hatred from women and feminists towards men. Like we were the cause of all the world's problems. Like if I am attracted to you I am a creep. As a teenager, all the girls in my class liked the older guys. They see you as an immature boy. Then the next thing you hear is about "old creeps/pigs".

It felt to me like whatever I did as a man, it would never be good enough for women, and even things like wanting to protect them or help them or just hold open a door was seen as suspicious.

Then I also felt like society completely bought into the idea. There were no adult men pushing back against it. They all just nodded along. It was always "women are victims and men are bad".

Then in my life I looked around, and it just felt like to me, women had a pretty damn sweet deal. Teachers treated them better. They could charm themselves out of trouble. When we went clubbing, they could get in for free, I couldn't get in or had to pay a lot. They could get into relationships super easily, no matter how ugly or weird or unpleasant they were. It seemed like they were playing life on easy mode. Most of the ones I knew settled down with attractive, successful guys. Me and many of my friends just kind of failed at life. And no one cared.

So yeah. That's why I hated women, but I am trying to change my perspective.

[Asker]

Thanks for sharing your perspective. I think you still have a lot of time to live your life, you haven’t failed until it’s actually over, I think everything you said is true😭 but I hope you continue to change your perspective. Do you think at the time hating women made you feel better and more in control or did the resentment make you feel worse or something else? I guess a lot of it isn’t the womens’ fault, you can’t blame all men for some men’s faults like you said, assuming they all have bad intentions or judging them based on their age. A lot of clubs make it free for women because they want a good ratio of men to women, it’s for their buisness, but I agree that it’s sexist.

[Cheapskate]

Thanks, yeah, I dunno. It didn't make me feel better, but at the same time I am kind of glad that there are some men speaking out these days, even if many of them are terrible people and a lot of what they are suggesting is regressive and awful. I just think Western women liberated themselves and broadened their gender role, and men just remained stuck in the same one. Like, you can try to be more of a soft man, and sure, some women are okay with that, but most women find it completely unattractive and always demand a "real" man etc. So I still think it's not really true. I'm still kind of in the situation that I can be myself and forever be that guy that women don't respect or want, or I can spend my life trying to build an insane career or becoming super jacked and physically intimidating, and those are my options. "Be a man". Never "be yourself". I agree it would be totally hypocritical to generalize about all women, because that is what I was complaining about before. And there are nice women who are kind and tolerant and understanding of men. But I still feel like most don't really think about it or care. And it works okay for them, because there are more men than they need, so it's okay if some of us fail.

I just wonder what will happen to loser men when women increasingly take over society. You can already see with dating apps, it is empowering a handful of men to an insane degree and leaving lots of others out in the cold.

I guess what I am saying is I don't blame women anymore, because I know it leads nowhere, the women don't care and just find it pathetic and an annoying and creepy, society doesn't care, so all I am doing is wasting my time.

So I am basically checking out of the whole love game and I think I am just gonna gradually fade away over the years lol.

[Cheapskate]

Also you're right about the clubs, it makes total business sense, and it's to avoid a sausage fest, which the men would not enjoy anyway.

It's just how nature is: women are worth more than men.

[Anonymous]

Honestly I believe most men like myself were raised right. To treat women right. W respect. But over time as men got screwed over in a lot of ways like divorce they got fed up w it. In almost all situations the law favors women. Like child custody, child support, alimony, etc. Men have lost their house in a divorce after discovering their wife cheating on him w another man. I think you’d be upset if your husband did that to you then you lost the house to him, but than you still had to pay for the house as well as pay him alimony. Plus the new girlfriend staying w him in the house you have to pay for. These days there’s a lot of women who tell men we aren’t shit, that we don’t need you. There’s a lot of reasons. Men told they have to be good, a nice man to meet women only to be left for some other man who treats her like shit. There’s a lot of reasons.

[Nikki1989]

Ignore the mentally suffering fungi you find on here. Most men know much better.

[DrPepper12]

Unresolved and diffuse anger, massive egos, keyboard warriors who feel safety in anonymity, low Inteligence, easily manipulated by society n friends, propensity for violence over dialogue, denying feelings instead of talking about them, the whole "therapy is for pussies" toxic masculinity, etc, etc.

[Lionman95]

I would say because many guys are frustrated with life so they use this page as a vessel for their anger. So it´s necessarily that hate women they are just frustrated and throw out their unfiltered and reflected opinions.

[JacobJordan]

If you too scared to own what you are saying you shouldn't say it. If you were in front of a crowd in person you wouldn't be able to do it anonymous why should this be any different. It is a valid question so own it

[Asker]

I don’t want to get doxxed

[JacobJordan]

Going anon wouldn't help you with that lol

[Asker]

But it hides my account

[Asker]

I could use a voice changer and wear a mask if I was in front of a crowd

[JacobJordan]

And people can still figure out who you are. You are vastly underestimating how secure things are. Hiding your account name does less than you think. It is mainly so you can't be dmed by people or sent follow requests. Anyone with a decent level of computer skill could find out your account name. If you want to remain "anon" you would need to use false emails with false recovery emails. You wouldn't be getting doxxed especially not by guys. That is primarily a woman thing anyways. Well women and the woke.

[Asker]

Why do you want me to be not anonymous so bad😞

[JacobJordan]

It is your choice my point is you are doing anon for reasons that don't actually matter and if you are proud of your statement then own it. If you feel you are wrong (which I would say based on most of the folks on this forum you are) then it makes sense to go anon so as to avoid being dmed or followed. But anon because you worry they may dox you doesn't make sense as they would just say something rude and move on

[Anonymous]

This site has a lot of incels and femcels who come here just to hate the opposite gender

Funny how you just noticed one side of it

[dreamstar72]

I love women, but to answer you're question. It would be for the same reason as why do some women hate men on here. Besides most men on here are

[Asker]

Are what

[dreamstar72]

Hint I’m not one of them. Or possibly they hate because they can’t have or get.

[OddBeMe]

I think it’s “hate on” women… but I’m trying to be optimistic.

[Asker]

I’ve seen like 2 men say they hate women here😭But I hope you're right about most of the cases

[Anonymous]

For the similar reasons that so many women here hate men i'd imagine.

[OtterMan68]

rejected, dejected, lied to

[dean53AU]

I don't, I like women a lot