Guys, how can I tell whether a guy keeps texting me because he’s bored or because he’s interested in me?

[Anonymous]

Or maybe he’s not interested in me but he likes having a conversation with me.

[DishLady]

Truth? It might be a combo.


A guy might be bored when your text pops up and he plays are pins with you like a cat with a ball of yarn till a mouse or pigeon shows up. It’s a little more random than we’d like to think.


If he’s persistently txting you nonstop all day to keep you heated up, he wants you — doesn’t 100% matter that the text says because some guys are bad with words. They want points for effort… and extra credit if you can spare it. 😉


Just be patient with this guy’s process and you’ll see if he’s committing to interacting with you or just toying with the ball of yarn because there’s nothing more interesting available all of a sudden.

[spartan55]

How does he know you aren't just bored?

[Nikki1989]

Texting is NOT communicating.