Why is she looking at my stories with a profile 2 weeks after break up?
I think this is insane, but my ex broke up with me even though we had a great 5 month relationship with no issues and she was amazing till the last few weeks. I did something (not as bad as she made it seem) and she ended it things to “protect herself” even though she was doing stuff that was wrong as well.
I couldn’t convince her to give me a chance, so I ask to be friends and she didn’t want to at the moment. She kept denying my advances to be there for her and my dumbaaah told her that if she changes her mind to let me know. So I left expecting that to be the end. She had me blocked on social and didn’t want to unblock me cause she said she would be tempted to look at my page. She mentioned how hard it was to be away from after the breakup.
To end things she reached out to me four days later after break up to ask for a favor along the lines that if I hear of a job opening for the beginning of 2025 to let her know.
Isn’t it insane to ask this or reach out within a few days about a job and days later start stalking my profile with a fake account?
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Honestly bro, her behavior is pretty bizarre after breaking up with you. A few thoughts:
- Checking your socials with a fake account is super sketchy and seems like she isn't actually over you yet. Why look if she blocked you?
- Reaching out so soon about a job for next year is hella random. Seems like an excuse to talk to you again.
- She said it was hard being away from you after breaking up but refused to stay friends? Makes no sense.
I get the feeling she's not really sure what she wants. Part of her still likes you for sure since she can't stop stalking your stuff. But she's playing games trying to look like she's moved on.
I'd call her out and say something like "I see your fake profile viewing my stuff, so obviously you're not as over this as you claim. What's the deal?"
You deserve a straight answer bro. Maybe there's still a chance if you can get through to her. But no more playing these mind games either way.
So you have no proof that it’s her..
What if I know it’s her for sureS
Then that changes things. How would you know?
That account is followed by some of her friends
Honestly it could be a coincidence, someone from your town. She’s the one who broke up with you, and didn’t want you back no matter how you tried, so I’m sure you can understand why her watching your stories from a burner just doesn’t make sense.