It isn't a sustainable relationship. Your basically just sex toys for each other and distractions.
One partner or the other may quickly become bored or find a committed relationship that won't support a friends with benefits dynamic on the side Realistically there are any number of reasons but ultimately those types of arrangements are also transitory and can end rather quickly.
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Because it’s not meant to last. Usually the arrangement works when both parties are single or on the market, but at some point in time they can outgrow that arrangement or meet someone else entirely. Aside from that, the whole point is for it to be transactional, no strings attached is quite literally the benefit. If you can’t abide by that, and you’re emotional about cutting ties or hurt, then you put too many of your feelings into that person when you shouldn’t have.
100% common because if you don't establish your boundaries and make them clear form beginning it's messed and get feelings.
It can work but have to set good boundaries like: different town, friend's circle, habits, no texting / calling / following on Social Media, otherwise 99.9 you get feelings if you see her/him too often.
My friend had one friend with benefit and she still didn't recover from it after 2 years.
Because people generally want more than just sex, but it's hard to find someone that's compatible in life than just sex. Sex is easy. It's everything else that's a bit more rare.
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The guy is just using your body for masturbation what are you expecting? You have more to offer a man who wants a long-term relationship, so give him what you want.
the question is why are you settling for that kind of relationship?
They aren't a healthy form of a relationship
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