Why would he take photos with me and photos of our hands together if he is just a fuckboy? Did he do this just to have me in his collection?

[CoolCatMar1]

I don't get this

[AngryCarl]

Ah, the tricky subject of relationships! I'm going to need a whole lot of background information before I can give you an opinion. Lots of intimate background information about your relationship.

My first guess is his mates are razzing him for never have a girlfriend so he needs the pictures to prove you exist.

[CoolCatMar1]

Lol look at my previous post

[CoolCatMar1]

He is a fuckboy

[AngryCarl]

Yeah, he sounds like a fuckboy.

[scooogy]

Look in the mirror, you're too unique for a "collection"

[CoolCatMar1]

Then why he took photos of my hand in his? If he is just an f boy

[CoolCatMar1]

Doesn't make sense

[scooogy]

Men don't make sense

[CoolCatMar1]

Yeah... he himself said 'oh i won't find someone better than you and you are so pure and loyal" and yet he did that

[scooogy]

I'd have replied "find someone you didn't say that to yet"

[CoolCatMar1]

Ηahahah yesa

[jennifer_bloom]

A lot of dating specialists say you can weed out bad options by making the guy wait as long as possible. I know many dedicated people wait 3 months and some religious people have waited 6 years. There is nothing wrong with you, but you can get rid of guys who act wrong towards you by shutting down benefits until they prove they are crazy about you. I’m not saying this is effortless for everyone but the rewards are huge. You’re not different from other girls in your choices that anybody would be able to judge you negatively but you could improve your experience by reading these books that say to make him wait.

[Confucious900]

If you know he is a fuckboy why give in to what he only wants you for. No fuckboy wants a relationship. Just what is between your legs. I do know, and understand me on this, I am not saying you tried this, but I know of some girls who wants to turn a fuckboy into a obedient guy and then either stay or leave him. Fuck over the fuckboy. But honestly the hand thing, I have no idea. I am blank on that. I dont know of any other guy ever who wanted a picture of his hand with a girl he was seeing. Not even married guys. Maybe he wanted your picture of you and your hands together as a profile chat background or something.

[CoolCatMar1]

I don't know he literally took photos of me on his lap and me in the elevator next to him and 5 pictures of my hand on his hand just our hands

[Confucious900]

Selfies with you and maybe the lap thing sure. But as a guy I have never heard of this. Maybe he just really likes your hands. I dont can't give a helpful opinion on this besides I've never heard of it before. Maybe your spell worked on him and is now smitten with you and likes to look at pictures of your hand on his.

[CoolCatMar1]

Who knows.. he also said he loves how small my hand looks compared to his

[CoolCatMar1]

He also sent me all those photos and said they won't leave his phone

[CoolCatMar1]

And he for some reason wanted to keep me in his social media

[Confucious900]

Then your spell was strong and might have created a stalker. Just saying. All I can say is that is weird shit. Hope at least that helps.

[CoolCatMar1]

I think it's weird too

[Confucious900]

lol well goodluck with fuckboy.

[KittygosMeoWW]

If I’ve learned anything about narcissistic men is that they use women to stroke their ego, think they’re perfect trophy, use women to validate themselves for five minutes, and then emotionally discard us. He didn’t think it was special and he didn’t value your time together, you were just accessible and gave him what he needed.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Block him he’ll come back

[CoolCatMar1]

When we has sex he was TOO excited we had over 7 rounds in 2 hours lmao... He was moaning hard he even screamed I don't know wtf.
I really don't understand him 💀then he cried and told me not to go back to my ex and after i left him on read many times he said "i cheated"

[CoolCatMar1]

Had*

[CoolCatMar1]

Just trying to explain what happened

[KittygosMeoWW]

Gotcha, I don't know seems like an emotionally unstable man. My narcissistic ex was the same though he’d go out of his way to make out sexual intimate moments/normal dates “special” but then would cheat and ended up Being abusive. Best to stay away from men who are unstable though.

[CoolCatMar1]

Why would he cry and beg though?

[CoolCatMar1]

He also said "don't hang up on me speak"

[CoolCatMar1]

Called me 10000 times

[KittygosMeoWW]

Manipulation and again emotionally unstable confused man. He’s desperate for your attention because you satisfy an emotional need he has but when he’s satisfied he doesn’t treat you the same.

[CoolCatMar1]

Exactly

[MikeTheBartender]

He came 7x in 2 hours?

[KittygosMeoWW]

@MikeTheBartender yes she said that

[MikeTheBartender]

Wow... That man has talent.. but as far as the original question and context, not long term material.

[KittygosMeoWW]

@MikeTheBartender not really I’ve had exes do the same lol I’ve had an experience where we did 26 times in a day
day

[Levin]

Quality over quantity motherfuckers.

[KittygosMeoWW]

@Levin exactly

[Levin]

An Englishman would fuck you once, but good.

Just putting it out there...

[KittygosMeoWW]

@Levin where are all these Englishmen I keep hearing about… not in my state that’s for sure

[Levin]

Do you like Englishmen?

[Levin]

What state is yours?

[KittygosMeoWW]

@Levin wouldn’t know

[Levin]

Oh yeah, I get it. Gotta keep it on the down low.

[Still-alive]

Something else i thought of was this might be just him trying to see if he still 'has you' as in if you still think about him often. if you were truly over him then it wouldn't matter what he does, you wouldn't give him any reactions at all. its a power play really.

so the best thing you can do is to show indifference to whatever he does. Any other emotion will show him he has some sway over you but indifference will show him he's got nothing. so just continue on with your life and pay him no mind.

[milknhoneyy]

It depends. Some fuckboys are better at hiding their nature than others, and are able to conceal it from their partners for much longer. This requires a lot of performance and love bombing. If you're with a narcissist, odds are good you won't know for awhile because they have this type of shit down to a science. Best advice is to watch how he behaves when something doesn't go his way or when he is caught in a lie.

[Levin]

Guy is an emotional retard. You are emotionally invested in him. So his 90% dysfunction works on you because he occasionally gives you some crumbs.

You can do better than this.

He's a fuck boy. He manipulates you.

[WhitneySnow]

Probably just to seem romantic when he really isn’t. Trick you into thinking he’s not a fuckboy.

[Sevenpointfive]

stop at me. why would he take photos of you? why is anyone photographing you? are you special to them?

[Sevenpointfive]

dm me photos of these hands! they must be great

[Nice222]

Yup I’m sorry but it sounds to me like you were just a number for him. 😕

[sheikalana]

Maybe he does it to other girls too.

[Jennz6]

Is that the same Fuck boy?

[Jennz6]

@coolcatmar1 I knew a gay fuckboy that let guys fuck his ass so I put a strap on and fucked him

[TallAnon]

You're cute, ofcourse he wants pictures

[Jamie05rhs]

Honey, that's what fuckboys do.