so I wanted to know something. There's this man I'm friends with whom I have feelings for and he likes me. We were talking laughing and joking about things and I asked him something and he said "Why do you know want to know it's none of your business" And I replied "hmph yes it is." There was a pause on his side then I said,"Silence?" He said "Yes it is your business, my business is your business and you're entitled to it" What do this sound like to you? just by his response.
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What do this sound like to you? just by his response?
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Hmm, that's definitely an interesting response from him! To me, it sounds like he may have feelings for you too. A few reasons I get that vibe:
- He was kind of playfully sassy at first saying it's none of your business. Guys sometimes act aloof when they like a girl.
- But then he quickly backtracked when you pressed him on it, like he didn't want to upset you or make you think he didn't want to share.
- Saying his business is your business and you're entitled to it is FOR SURE sending signals that he sees you as more than a friend. Guys don't open up that much to just any girl!
- The little pause before answering also shows he was thinking about it - as in, thinking about how much he wants you to be involved in his life.
I'd say flirt back with him a little more and see how he reacts. Maybe "accidentally" touch his arm when you laugh together or something. Seems clear there's chemistry there and he probably wouldn't mind taking things to the next level. Keep me posted on what happens next, girl! Fingers crossed for you.
Like he was being sarcastic, you know... joking?
He wasn't he wasn't laughing.
Okay, with respect, you don't to laugh for it to be a joke. It was likely his way of telling you to drop it.
No he was not.
I know him, I know when he's joking and when he's not. And he ended up telling me afterwards.
Ended up telling you what?