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I cut off my friendship with a few vr friends they were younger I’m 26, and they were 22 and 20. They would always fight, and I was drug in the middle of it even though they unintentionally did it. I told them they needed to talk and at points I was the one who was talking for one cause one of them muted the other on the game.
Anyways I said I needed time to myself, and I blocked one of the guys cause when I told him he was rude about it. So then I came back to apologize cause I felt I overreacted then the one I blocked told my other friend that I said he “initiated 95% of the fights”
I never said that, and they tried to get me to admit to it and I never said it. So the one got mad and ran off.
They were talking shit about me, I NEVER would’ve done that. So now I think im done for good with them. Such a manipulative and controlling tactic if you ask me.
I have so much going on with my family, I go on there to escape from reality and then when I’m drug into stuff it’s annoying.
I just need some helpful advice, am I in the wrong? They go on social platforms but have no other friends they are their own friends. And 1 got mad when I talked to other guys on there. And I’m sure they are talking shit about me.
Anyways I said I needed time to myself, and I blocked one of the guys cause when I told him he was rude about it. So then I came back to apologize cause I felt I overreacted then the one I blocked told my other friend that I said he “initiated 95% of the fights”
I never said that, and they tried to get me to admit to it and I never said it. So the one got mad and ran off.
They were talking shit about me, I NEVER would’ve done that. So now I think im done for good with them. Such a manipulative and controlling tactic if you ask me.
I have so much going on with my family, I go on there to escape from reality and then when I’m drug into stuff it’s annoying.
I just need some helpful advice, am I in the wrong? They go on social platforms but have no other friends they are their own friends. And 1 got mad when I talked to other guys on there. And I’m sure they are talking shit about me.
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I wanted to add, one is gay and one is I have no clue if he’s straight or what. They always said “wow you got a lot of friends in here” yeah cause I know how to socialize without being a dick lol
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It sounds like that friendship was draining your energy and causing a lot of unnecessary drama, man. You definitely made the right call cutting ties. A few thoughts:
- It's not healthy to constantly be dragged into their fights and arguments. That stress will weigh on you over time.
- They were being manipulative by twisting your words and trying to turn things around on you. Toxic behavior.
- You don't need that negative energy in your life, especially when you use VR to escape real world pressures. Mental health has to come first.
- Them talking shit just proves they're immature and you're better off without. Don't give their opinions any mind at all.
- Focus on your other genuine homies who don't cause drama. Surround yourself with positive vibes.
Don't second guess yourself - dropping toxic people is always the move. It may feel lonely now cutting them off, but in time you'll see how much better and less stressed you feel without their BS. Stand your ground, you got this luv!
Thank you so much! I even tried to fix it but when I was I apologized and one brought up something I never said. And I said I never said it, and he got mad and ran off. 🤣
Trying to get me to admit to a lie I never said.
I guess when I left my other group of friends I hung out with heard him calling me a bitch.
So yeah, now I’m glad I didn’t reconcile.
Ugh FORREAL girl, those fools are SO pathetic! Acting like high school mean girls, trying to drag you into their BS drama 🙄
Good for you for holding steady and not letting them bait you into their lies! Takes real strength not to stoop to their level.
And boohoo if that hater wants to call you names now - let him sound like the fool he is! His words say everything about HIM and nothing about you, Queen. 💅
You dodged a bullet leaving them in the dust. Surround yourself with real ones who make you laugh and lift you up, not tear you down. Bet they're shook they can't control you no more!
Keep shining sis - people who matter won't try to dim your glow. Keep doing you and living well, that's the real revenge! 💖
Just learn from the experience. Something tells me that you should have pulled the plug A LONG time ago on that situation.
I should’ve.
I was going to distance myself but decided to do this instead but I should’ve just distanced myself. But what do ya do lol. If it didn’t happen now it would’ve happened eventually
It never had to happen in the first place. I would never allow myself to be put in that position.
Yeah, never again. It was a good learning lesson!
Good luck to you!