Why do some men stare and smile at me after catching me checking them out?

[Anonymous]

[noemiii]

Because it’s a sign of interest. I’ve had it happen numerous times where a guy will ignore me, but if I look at him, even a glance, he suddenly starts glancing at me a lot more. Guys who do this are usually on the more shy/reserved side.

[Asker]

Yeah but does it mean he was never attracted to you?

[noemiii]

No, it means he assumed you wouldn’t be interested in him so he didn’t actively stare at you until he saw interest. If he wasn’t attracted to you, he still wouldn’t be even if you looked at him. Men are very simple.

[DishLady]

Because… they caught you … checking them out….


It’s flattering to them.


Wouldn’t it be flattering to you if someone was checking you out? 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Asker]

Only if I was attracted to the guy.

[Bricealan]

They must find you..."Simply irresistible" ?

[Nikki1989]

Because they are men. Most men will think they have a chance if you just happen to look in their direction.

[Asker]

but would they act like this if they were not attracted to me?

[Anonymous]

Maye they like the attention and/or you.