Guys, what do you feel when a girl gives you intense eye contact?

Question

Cause I am that girl. Sometimes I do it to scare man away and sometimes I do it to flirt. And I never shy away from it because I am literally fearless. Life taught me to become fearless in order to protect myself.

RingOfFire · Accepted Answer

Okay... one time years ago I was commuting to work. It's about an hour train ride. There was a woman on the train who was staring at me. I thought she was very attractive so although I was trying not to look back, she kept staring and I couldn't help it. I was looking back at her and she kept looking at me.

That happened to me before and a couple of times it turned into dates.

So this went on for almost a half hour until the train arrived in the city.

I didn't have time to try to talk to her because I was late so I just got up and started walking down the aisle to get to the door and leave the train. There was a short line of people in the aisle and she was about 3 people behind me.

All of a sudden I hear "PERVERT!"

WHAT?

I'm laughing even now because I still can't believe it! This woman starts going off on me calling me all kinds of names! All I could think is that she was some kind of lunatic!

It was so freaking embarrassing! At first people were alarmed because they didn't know why this woman was yelling. Then, they tried to look away and ignore it because they must have felt embarrassed too.

I said "What are you talking about?" to her. But she had no answer.

I just got off the train and got the hell out of there! That was one of the strangest experiences I ever had.

The only thing I can think of is that I saw her looking at me. So I started looking at her, and then maybe she noticed I was looking at her so she looked at me, then I saw her looking at me so I looked at her. So it kept going on both of us thinking we were being stared at... and she was in a bad mood or something and took it out on me. I mean it wasn't as if I was licking my lips or anything! CHEESH!

DannyUk2017 · Accepted Answer

Depends of the "body language" pose, interaction, mood, etc...
If she is in a bus, train, plane, and we lock eyes, then i'll start to "study" her... even try to smile, if she stares more than 3 seconds and not a "sign" then that's a "defence/offence mechanism" right there, and she might think i'm a creep or something, so i'll just break the eye contact and never look her way again...
If we are at a terrace, coffee shop, sea side, etc... same if she's relaxed and enjoying coffee or the weather, and we lock eyes, i guess will happen the same just making sure she's comfortable and see me a "time killer" as lonleiness it is a killer...(unless she dived in her phone, tablet, laptop)...🤷‍♂️

lightbulb27 · Answer

First times i recal feeling exposed to the core. Vulnerable

Anonymous · Answer

First, if you're doing this with everyone, then I think you're just enjoying people's reactions. Or maybe there's something you want to reach.

If that's your way of eye contact with people, then,
Depends:

If there was a crush with her, then I had the experience. Where she is staring to a point that I feel I can't look back at her. Although she is attracted, but too much of it had to let me ignore her when she did so.
Anyone will.

If she is a stranger, then just like any person regardless of gender, I made the gesture of "Yes? / What do you need?" before. I did it to a man, to a girl I probably won't use my hands but my eyes and head.

Put into mind:
A stare of a girl is of love, while a stare of man is of cunning.

If no signs of attaction. Then most likey we will know that you in general are an intense looker (could have different reasons).. nothing more.

molonski2 · Answer

Absolutely love it when its intense and that person can prolong and is bold enough to just NOT look away , fantastic , its bold , its a statement , good on you.

When you say as a defense type mechanism / fearless.. Why is that?

Pohjolan · Answer

Confusion mostly. Like is there something on my face?

hafinjun · Answer

Usually I can read the stare I love direct women especially the ones who ask direct questions more to see the reaction then to get a response . Flirting great fun with the right person

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

Judging me or jealousy lol or repulsed hahahaha 😅😉 👀👀👀👁️ I also tend to dislike them in my mind,
If only women were like dogs able to smell my 🧠 chemicals changing lol negatively 😮‍💨😤😮‍💨

Anonymous · Answer

I feel sparks and positive vibes and love. Sometimes girls sparkle at you when they make eye contact.

Med_guy1978 · Answer

Rarely happened to me but when it has it's always caught me by surprise or off guard as they'd say. I'd smile back and if the right circumstances approach her. It's always nice, as it doesn't often happen.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I'd stare back for a while. If prolonged, I'd probably walk up to her and ask her if my fly was open or something like that!

JFelix · Answer

Tbh if it's an attractive girl I would probably think she is flirting and approach her, if it's a not so attractive girl I would probably be freaked out

Anonymous · Answer

Even at my age, I don't like humans looking at me and generally avoid direct eye to eye contact.

Billlewis · Answer

I feel exactly the way you just described your intentions when you do this;)

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

I have never been able to hold eye contact before. It feels very strange.

Juxtapose · Answer

I'd feel bashful because few women are so bold and I love that kind of thing. I'd probably see if I could approach her to see how we vibe. Good on you for being fearless 👍

Knightwatch27 · Answer

I assume interest. Unless I'm doing something weird or something that warrants staring.

SotiCoto · Answer

I wear sunglasses in public. Always. Eye-contact should be impossible. She is just staring, and I don't like it.

glennos89 · Answer

I find it creepy and weird when girls stare at me for some reason. It's just weird

Joshgag2000 · Answer

I wouldn’t even notice because I don’t stare at strangers

RossyBoi · Answer

I would call the police and report her for sexual harassment.

The_Sexpert · Answer

If I'm into her then stare back, else ignore

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Just smile and wait to see what's next!

RetroReviews · Answer

Never experienced it

spartan55 · Answer

That's great.

MasterKS · Answer

Thats the confident a lady need.

jahaims · Answer

Depends on the context

Blueeyes81 · Answer

It's generally creepy either way.

Taylor22424 · Answer

Probably staring at my bottom

VV3ZZY123 · Answer

I love it

Mediterraneansoul · Answer

She's a psycho

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