Guys, would frequent deep eye contact with a girl effect you?

[Anonymous]

Like if a guy and a girl made frequent prolonged eye contact everyday for like months, would that effect the guy in any way? or does eye contact mean nothing too guys?

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And in what way would it effect you?

[I-am-a-nobody]

Guys respond to women that respond to us.
In other words, while I would guess it means more to women, when she likes it, the guy likes it. It makes the guy wonder what she's thinking and vice versa.

If you've been doing it for months, you are obviously both attracted to each other.
However, initial attraction should not be an end in itself. You might want to get to know them as an actual human being and not just a piece of eye candy.
Even getting to know someone, people tend to put their best foot forward and hide their perceived "flaws". This unfortunately only allows the other person to know a false "you " and not the real "you".

[Anonymous]

Depends. If it's a girl I already kinda like I'll probably like her more. If I don't like her it'll just make me a little uncomfortable and I'd probably avoid looking her in the eyes

[Asker]

Yeah but this guy does not avoid at all so.. and i don't know him

[Asker]

so does that mean he likes me because he always return eye contact?

[Opinion Owner]

I used to make eye contact with this girl I never knew on campus for like two years. I thougth she was absolutely gorgeous but I'd freeze up and have a panic attack every time I tried to go over and talk to her. He may like you but be to scared to do anything about it. Try smiling and waving every time you see him.

[TheManWithAPlan99]

He would definitely be wondering what you're thinking and it wouldn't take long for him to perhaps catch on that you may like him but he won't go on eye contact alone because guys will think that maybe they are over reacting over a little bit of eye contact so maybe say something sweet while making eye contact for him to catch on and maybe ask you out if he feels the same way

[Zumbido]

It's all dependent upon her behavior past that, and the face she's making while she looks at me.
I mean, if she stares at me it could either mean she's paying attention to me or what I'm saying, she's thinking about other shit and doesn't notice where she's looking, she hates me, or she likes me. It'd really be up to context clues to determine which, and I feel most guys would respond accordingly.

[godfatherfan]

If she was looking like that at me, I wouldn't approach her on purpose. I would want to see if she was really serious and I would wait to see if she approaches me first. If she doesn't within a week or two, I wouldn't give her a second thought. If she is truly interested she will come up and say hello. otherwise, she is just playing around.

[Anonymous]

So I personally would find that weird but also kind of intreguing / sexy. But let me qulify this by saying that I am the kind of guy who had a crush on Wednesday Addams. This is despite her not being blonde. Seriously, there are guys who prefer blondes and insecure liars. Let me tell you I like creepy weird girls but blonde (white gothic blonde of course) is beyond my control. Its just a thing my loins do.

That having been said, stare away if your pool of guys is big enough. Nine out of ten will be creeped out but that teenth one is golden.

[cheesecakes]

Of course it would have an effect especially if we're sharing smiles. I personally realize that it makes me think about them more. Maybe even start having some feelings? Depending on the eye contact we're having.

[Asker]

Well the eye contact is prolonged but we don't smile, we just stare into each others eyes and it's always from a distance

[cheesecakes]

So both of you are shy to make a move? prolonged eye contact without doubt means interest. If both of you stay on just having eye contact, with time you might feel as if you know each other.

[Asker]

Yeah thats how i feel lol.

[cheesecakes]

Try sharing a little smile next time and see his response. a lot of guys are so nervous and because of that they don't catch the hint that a girl is interested. Although you're having prolonged eye contact he's probably thinking "eh im not sure if she's interested"

[Asker]

Does it seem like he is interested?

[cheesecakes]

I wouldn't see another reason to have prolonged eye contact. People like to look at attractive people. Ask yourself, why do you have eye contact with him?

[Asker]

Because i think he's super cute. but sometimes i think that he only keeps looking because i do and maybe have no interest because he never tries talking too me or anything. he is very shy tho..

[cheesecakes]

He's probably thinking the same... But i can tell you for sure that he's interested in you. If im not interested in a girl and i notice that she's trying to catch my gaze I'd try to avoid looking at her so i don't send wrong messages.

[Asker]

Yeah thats what i would have done too, and most guys probably would do that, it's just that because of the fact that he never do anything more and it's been going on for so long that make me question it

[Chilled_Eyes]

I'd probably just think she liked the way I look, if I was single I'd maybe ask her out or at least for a phone number.

[RickRichRichie]

Is she just starring at me and not flinching or? Generally I love it when a girl is looking into my eyes and smiling. Drives me crazy. Short drive but still.

[jscmp]

Eye contact is important, but not as much so as deep conversation. That's how you actually bond with someone

[OrangeBoy]

Thats definitely an invitation and works well.
... if he's not gay xd

[Asker]

But how would it effect a guy?

[Asker]

like in what way?

[OrangeBoy]

I would definitely think you would wish my body or love me. That's the first one. Then, i could feel shy about it, or reply, or find it kinda creepy.

I could also think you could hate me, depends on your look, or maybe you were planning something evil against me lol.

But after some days i would talk to you.

[Chilepikin]

It will not affect us Perseid but likely it means we like each other. The answer its extremely easy if you know where to look for it.