Was teasing this guy I’m dating. Did I accidentally cross my line?

[Anonymous]

I recently started dating this guy. We tease each other from time to time. He can’t decide if he wants to buy an iPad so I sent him below image.

He replied “I end on seek help of a professional 😅”

To that, I told him that “I might be able to help you with that 😛”

he said, “Yummy 🤪”

i said “🙈☺️”

then he said “You will beg for it later on 🤪”

and then I told him “I might end up making you beg for me 😉, you just never know. beg = crave 😉“

Then he didn’t reply on this but we continued to text on different iPad models he is interested in.
I am wondering if I crossed a line and went too far with teasing him and telling him I’ll make him beg for me? Please tell me what it looks to you. I was just trying to have light banter.

[236color]

I think it was light banter. I think he stopped before it passed out of the "light" category, and I think that was deliberate. I believe he backed off when he thought going any further would embarrass one or both of you. I think things are fine and he's probably a more perceptive than average guy.

[Asker]

Thank you for sharing your opinion. I feel relaxed and I’ll make sure not to do this kind of teasing again that could borderline seem offending

[MrDaveAPSI]

Teasing, with no positive end result, is wrong but, you can tease, as long as you do wind up doing it.

So, if you tease him about getting an ipad, you had better get the ipad. it's technically lying otherwise

[CrabCakes11]

You probably didn’t cross a line. Ask him though if you are worried

[spartan55]

It's like a flow chart when nerds try to act flirty..., 😜

[Asker]

You got that right :) we are both nerds

[spartan55]

Good stuff. 😂😂😂😁

[Asker]

Thanks lol!
So please tell me, does it look to you that I'm just teasing him or it could be interpreted in a bad way that I can’t wait to make him beg me? I mean I hope I’m looking respectful towards him because I have no intention to disrespect or put him down.

[spartan55]

Are you not planning on having sex with him?

[Asker]

He and I have talked about it and it known to us that it will happen, just not right away.
Does my teasing imply in any way that I won’t have it with him?

[spartan55]

I promise you he isn't third level analyzing this like you are.

[Asker]

Aah that’s good to know. I’m just being a woman over analyzing everything lol
So the fact that he and I continued to text about ipad models after this is a good indicator that he did not take this teasing otherwise. Am I right? (Looking for a guys perspective here)

[spartan55]

I don't understand why you think he would take it negatively at all.

[Asker]

I don’t know either. May be I’m just trying to be too cautious because texting can create misunderstandings sometimes. But then I tell myself that if he and I run into such then how he will handle it will tell me how mature he is. For example, if he just brushes it off and knows that I wouldn’t have meant bad then he and I will be able to have a more mature relationship if we get to it. Right now we just started dating

[spartan55]

Just don't act like it and then act all prudey later. Walk the walk.

[Asker]

Sorry, I didn’t quite understand. Can you please explain what you meant so I can learn what I need to do?

[spartan55]

If you are going to talk/playful/dirty whatever, don't pull it off the table later.

[Asker]

Oh ok. Got it. Thanks!

[Anonymous]

He's a pussy if that was crossing the line to him.

[Asker]

So, to you, it does look clear that I’m just teasing, right?

[Opinion Owner]

Very clear

[Asker]

That’s a relief. Thank you so much!

[John_Cobretti]

Was that flirting?

[Asker]

Yes haha