Why does he want me to call him daddy?

[st4rgrrlx]

i’m talking to this guy and he says he wants me to call him daddy, i don’t really have a problem with it or anything, but i just want to know why do some guys like this?

[OfMiceandMen]

That whole scenario is just stupid, it must be something with younger guys wanting to feel in control of their women. I am a dad, so the last thing I want to hear come out of a girls mouth is anything to do with me being her "Daddy".

I guess I am not the controlling type in a relationship either.

[Crimsyjo]

Oh finally someone who agrees. I'm a mummy and I do not want to be reminded of being a mum when I'm hoping to feel all sexy and naughty with my partner. My recent ex wanted to be called daddy during sex (he was 38 and a daddy). So it didn't do it for me. But I humoured him uncomfortably.

[OfMiceandMen]

@Crimsyjo it would certainly make for an awkward moment in my books if she called me daddy during an intimate moment. I would likely panic, thinking it was her daddy and run my bare ass out the bedroom door with a mental picture of him having a shotgun!

[Crimsyjo]

Haha. Maybe some guys find that a turn on? Like *put on big macho voice* yh I'm screwing your daughter! So what!" Lol

[OfMiceandMen]

@Crimsyjo The big macho voice may go to a little squeaky - drop the nards kind of prepubescent voice once he starts picking buckshot out of his behind!

[Crimsyjo]

I'm way older than you and my younger (now ex) boyfriend wanted me to call him daddy. First time I ever been asked to and I didn't like it much. But it turned him on sooo... there were benefits to seeing him react. I guess it's a dominance thing.

Last thing I'd ever ever want from a partner is to be called mummy! Yuk!

[Daniela1982]

A better question is why you are interested in some old goat who wants you to call him daddy? 😯😫😖

[st4rgrrlx]

is isn’t even old

[Daniela1982]

Says you. We all know he has money and is old. 😂🤣😆

[st4rgrrlx]

how can you know anything when i’m the only one who knows him like shut up

[Daniela1982]

I know trolls when I see them sir. 🙄

[st4rgrrlx]

are you kidding me? do you know the definition of “troll”? what are you even on about?

[HawkPerception]

Dominant guys like daddy. It's not literally calling them your dad. But it's a pet name that's less than sir or especially master. I also like being called daddy. It's definitely a turn on. If you're a submissive girl that likes dominant men, it's more likely to be a term you like as well.

[Chazmatazz269]

I don’t understand that one. Or maybe i do and i just don’t want there to be so many creeps out there.
I don’t see a reasonable explanation for that behavior. I’ve had women call me ‘daddy’ and that was the end of that. I’ve told guys that they’re creepy when they like that. I had one woman, well… let’s say an internet entity identifying as a woman, try to explain the daddy/little (adult) girl fetish to me. It all just screams incest fantasy to me. Eff that!

[Crimsyjo]

It seems weird to be too! Like, who wants to be thinking of their daddy during bedroom times? Eww

[RebelinSteel]

Porn etc has a lot to answer for. The guy asking for this is wrong, it’s him pushing his ‘kink’ and not the girl asking which is slightly different.

[leahzrc]

lol they all wants to be called daddy but don't want to be a daddy

[dustybiker2]

Ick. Reminds me of woman who call their dogs "momma".

[TommyMountainFigure]

I think it's quite sick honestly.

Would I be right in thinking he was a fair bit older than you?

[SotiCoto]

That isn't the correct response. The correct response is to laugh. Laugh a lot. Make it the most condescending, mocking laugh you can manage. Shame him. Shame the hell out of him.

[Taylor22424]

That's a good question, why would he want you to call him "daddy"?

You look like a who would want to be with you?

You look average... you lack a jawline along with the painted clown look.

[st4rgrrlx]

lol that’s so funny, my pfp is lana del rey but nice try buddy. the fact I've seen so many comments on random women’s posts from freaks like you on this app is insane. get ahold of your insecurities and grow a pear

[Taylor22424]

Oh that's even worse...

[Taylor22424]

You are using somebody else's pics. That must means you are so ugly in real life, you need to use somebody else pics.

[st4rgrrlx]

wow lol i could if i wanted to but i like lana del rey and i want to stay anonymous so if really isn’t any of your business what i do. lol im not even ugly you’re just looking for anything so you can act like a loser on the internet

[Taylor22424]

Every girl on the planet says they aren't ugly.

But your actions says you are ugly...

[st4rgrrlx]

bahahah you don’t even know me and what actions? attacking my character now when you don’t even know me and i haven’t even done anything wrong? like seriously you can suck on my cock you dumb fuck

[Taylor22424]

I clearly know you based on your actions.
Using somebody else's picture is a sigh of insecurity.

And that last message screamed "immature"

"bahahah you don’t even know me and what actions?" - 🤪
"you can suck on my cock you dumb fuck"- 🤪

This is very immature. Makes you ugly on the inside and out.

[st4rgrrlx]

what fucking actions and yes you are a dumb fuck, stating facts isn’t immature you just can’t handle it. also look at the fucking age difference? attacking my “maturity” while you’re like 10 years older than me? and if you think you can know someone by a few words posted online than i’m sorry but you need to give your head a shake. go and bother someone else or touch grass

[Taylor22424]

"what fucking actions and yes you are a dumb fuck" - immature

" stating facts isn’t immature you just can’t handle it." - this, "you can suck on my cock you dumb fuck", isn't a fact unless you are a kid.

also look at the fucking age difference? attacking my “maturity” while you’re like 10 years older than me? - that's something only a kid would say. You are not mature at all, look at how you write, "dumb fuck".

From the amount of times you cuss, I can tell you are a child, not mature.

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

For the most accurate answer, you could ask him. It doesn't sound like he'd lie or get stubborn about it.

[Berethor]

I guess that it because you are 17 years old girl, so the guy is really like your daddy. :)

[elizamichale1]

Well u can blame porn for it... guys get it from there n want their girls to calk them daddy

[msc545]

I don't think you should do that, and additionally, I don't think you should be involved with this guy at all. What he's asking is creepy and weird and seems a lot like pedophilia or pedophilic thoughts or fantasies.

[HelpfulWoman]

i find it incredibly cringey and tells a lot about the man's character myself.

[DaBiggestBird]

He probably goes on Omegle and tries to intimidate 12 year olds by cussing at them while speaking in a Scottish accent thinking it’s Australian

[Rafrenc]

He wants to have control and he might want to be a older guy to you act or assimilate

[John_Cobretti]

DDLG kink and has a thing for seeing you submissive and being dominant over you

[John_Cobretti]

Don't let these single weirdo women here discourage your kink
You like it -You do it, Fck judgy people

[LunarEclipse433]

Because of your age and I am sure he is older than you. Is this all the time or during sex or making out?

[NTwBWCoh]

Is he older than you? Some guys with little dicks have their own daddy issues they want women to call them daddy. When I was younger I called every girl I spoke to baby girl

[Anonymous]

He is probably a porn addict or a pedo or both.

[Juxtapose]

For some of us like myself? Past girlfriends got us into it because it was *THEIR* kink.

[Wise4myage]

Its a real turn on for a lot of guys, but if it bothers you than just make sure he knows.

[MacDaddyRico]

If you're living a BDSM Lifestyle as His submissive, this would be normal.

[ICanSmellTheCosmos]

I honestly couldn't tell you why. I can't say that is my thing.

[RedInnocent69]

‘Cause baby like cum. Papi is also acceptable, if you have an accent.

[spartan55]

Of course, always have to know WHY WHY WHY...😂😂

[Siri137]

What a creep.

[RavVid]

It is accepting his authority.

[laly520]

he is getting u in his kink

[LaurenM1997]

Cause he has a daddy kink

[DrPepper12]

Never cared for that. It's weird.

[OddBeMe]

What age is he?

[st4rgrrlx]

23 i’m turning 18 right before he turns 24

[OddBeMe]

Eesh, I guess…

The daddy thing always bugs me. there's a sick part of us guys that’s easy to devolve into pedo shit. I just get iffy.

[Juxtapose]

You really think there's a part of men that's like that?

And man that shit isn't fair, one of my last exes got me into that by calling me Daddy and I thought it was weird before she got me into it 😂

[Juxtapose]

And be clear I mean got me into the Daddy thing, not anything fucked up.

[OddBeMe]

@Juxtapose why do you get off on that?

[Juxtapose]

Getting called "Daddy" is basically the woman telling you: "I am kinky as fuck cus I am using incestuous undertones and/or referencing an age gap I want you to own me and know you have a special place as my hot stud in my heart."

[Juxtapose]

*age gap.

[OddBeMe]

@Juxtapose Exactly, and I don’t have a problem with that as long as we are truthful about it.

[Juxtapose]

Incest and age gaps are pretty tame fetishes though frankly. Incest at the age of majority with no babies produced is utterly harmless, as is age of majority age gaps.

[Juxtapose]

There's vore, goro, snuff, scat, reverse birthing, pedo, etc as much more extreme fetishes.

[OddBeMe]

@Juxtapose yeah and I’m for not censoring any of your sex fetishes.

[Juxtapose]

Within the bounds of the law, sure. If I am exposing pornography to children then that is a crime.

[Juxtapose]

Same with any of that kiddily-diddling shit in general. Fucking shoot that shit in the head, get rid of it entirely. Absolutely no tolerance.

[OddBeMe]

@Juxtapose so…again, being called “daddy” was a nod to incest or some type of r’pe fsntasy…when you asked why I’m critical of it. Again deconstructed. Boom

[Juxtapose]

Excuse me? How was that at all some type of rape fantasy? I explicitly excluded underage crap.

[Juxtapose]

Unless it is being done to me? Rape turns me off.

[OddBeMe]

@Juxtapose calm down dude. That’s your problem. You hate yourself and your sexual pecidilos.

Boom deconstructed

[Juxtapose]

More deflection and nonsense.

Yep, looks like I backed you into a corner and you don't like it.

[OddBeMe]

@Juxtapose not deflection. Deconstruction. Of your arguments. And your sex life, apparently.

Don’t be so anti fantasies. It’s not wrong. Just know where they come from. Didn’t this whole argument come out of me saying “daddy” is eluding to some weird fantasy shit in men’s heads?

[Juxtapose]

You don't know much about my sex life and you never will. It's kind of creepy for you to comment on that actually.

I am very specific and I know where my desires come from. My sexual desires all fall within legal limits and I do not desire rape or anything illegal whatsoever.

My "Daddy" kink came from a consenting adult who liked that I was older. That's really all there is to it, I'm not a damn Catholic priest and I am not like those people who raped my friend. Oh yeah, the friend you said I supposedly used.

I talked to her ex text before me about that and he thought your argument was ridiculous. I showed him the text and he acknowledged that it was relevant and he knew her and he knew she had no problem with me sharing my experiences with her so long as those people never meet her.

[Juxtapose]

It just baffles my mind how you get things so incredibly wrong.

[OddBeMe]

@Juxtapose ditto. You think a parent 101 course is authoritarian. But want to take books with sex in it out of reach of children because you’ve predetermined it would be bad for them. When maybe their parents should decide.

[Juxtapose]

Yes, it is because you would make it mandatory.

I can't BELIEVE I am actually seeing the modern left defend distribution of obscene materials to children.

[OddBeMe]

@Juxtapose we aren’t distributing it. You just want to decide everyone’s fate because the right knows more.

As you woefully shown you don’t. Ask the DOJ.

[Juxtapose]

You do actually. You're fighting HARD to keep that book about gay sex.

Yes, the modern left is.

[OddBeMe]

@Juxtapose yeah for wherever it is needed. Not Nazi book burnings.

Should poetry class predetermine not to teach Allen Ginsburg?
triumphofthenow.com/.../

[Juxtapose]

You have an agenda that much is clear. That's so warped that you want to EXPOSE CHILDREN to *obscene* material.

If it's sexual? No, it doesn't belong in front of minors.

[OddBeMe]

@Juxtapose thanks. And you puritanical shit heels don’t want parents taught a course but are ok with book burnings! Nazis are right wing, indeed.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yHzM1gXaiVo

[OddBeMe]

Why are books so harmful they’d need to be burned?

[Juxtapose]

So are all these other books that the libraries decided to not stock also "burned"? That's so disingenuous and so blatant, please try to come up with something better.

[OddBeMe]

@Juxtapose might as well be. Why refuse them for all people just because a child might pick it up? Jesus fuck, you think a book is more dangerous than a gun.

[Loner111]

To dominate.