When a man loves a woman.. will he talk bad about her?

[Anonymous]

We were in a long distance relationship

We broke up and he left me

But he garantees my love

He got a relationship with another girl

But he spoke to me again after a while and told me that he had left her

He told me that she was not suitable for him and did not look like him in anything.. and she is crazy bad woman, and that he was waiting for a miracle to bring us back together

But I saw pictures of them together from a friend

He spends many vacations with her and visits the world with her.. he didn't realy leave her..

Why does he do that?

Does this man really know love?

Can he love a woman and talk bad about her... or he is just lying to me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Sis, that man is not good for you if he's lying and saying mean things about other girls. When someone really loves you, they'd never talk bad about past relationships to make themselves look better. That's a red flag.

It seems clear he didn't actually leave that new girl like he said. He's just telling you what he thinks you want to hear so he can keep you on the backburner while still being with her. That's messed up and will only end up hurting you more.

You deserve so much better than being someone's second option or backup plan! A man who genuinely cares about you would be honest, loyal and faithful - not playing mind games like this.

My advice would be to cut contact with him for good. You don't need the stress of wondering what's real. Focus on yourself and people who treat you with respect. This dude ain't it, and you're too awesome to let him waste any more of your time!

[spartan55]

"did not look like him in anything" tf?

He is lying like a Persian rug.

[Asker]

But why? If he realy loves her why?

[spartan55]

Because he is a cheating piece of shit, that's WHY

[Asker]

So do you think he realy loves her

[spartan55]

Who knows? Why are you wasting time on a guy who doesn't want you?

[avery58]

Is this the same question about the guy who cheated on you? Either way he's just trying to manipulate you. You should choose your dignity and leave him. He clearly lied to you and is two-timing you.

Are you willing to accept a cheater or to be in a relationship with a liar? Think of your health, for all you know he could bring home some type of nasty STD or something.

[avery58]

I don't know if I sounded a little harsh but I really think you shouldn't let him manipulate you or continue to cheat on you, hope you make the right choice for yourself

[Nikki1989]

"We were in a long distance relationship"

Then it was never a real relationship.