Why would a guy scare you?

[Anonymous]

My crush and I have been getting along good but he’s behaving strangely like bitch-like attitude even though I didn’t do him anything like if I say something bad as a joke he would say he will tell my parents then he is also controlling like if I like something and he doesn’t he would hit me then I can’t even text him and say “hi” he would say “why are u randomly texting me?” (I don’t even text him everyday) Like bitch you hooked me on to you made me feel special and then I can’t even say “hi” so I stopped talking to him for a while and he wouldn’t text me at all, so one day we happened to reach up in public and he approached me and I walked away and it felt ✨gooooooodddd✨ he looked like he was about to cry but when I text him I’m bothering him but when he tries to talk to me that’s okay though 🙄 so I text him recently and told him “hi hru?” He didn’t respond but a month after he sent me a text saying how he filed a complaint on me like wtf and cops are going to be coming like this guy is the weirdest species at this point I really don’t like him anymore because of the way he makes me feel and stressing me out but I can’t make sense out of the situation like what’s his problem? Why is he trying to give me a heart attack? Is he mental or does he enjoy having me scared and stressed out?

[TommyMountainFigure]

He's controlling and he hit you, and on top of that he really doesn't know what he wants, other than to mess with your head. You're scared and stressed, talking about heart attacks, but your last question answered all the other questions with just one word 'mental,' because to me? I think he is seriously in need of psychological help.

So what should your next step be? Save all of his emails, texts and any correspondence you have from him, just in case he was serious about calling the cops on you.. it's good to keep proof.

Other than that? Block him from now on, and consider yourself fortunate things aren't further along than they are. You may or may not realise it because of how you felt about him, but you've had a very lucky escape.