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I feel embarrassed even asking this and reading into it at all because I know social media doesn’t have to mean anything but it’s definitely odd.
Guy I’ve known for a lot of years named R who’s been a good friend. We slept together once and then again in February. I’ve always had feelings for him, I am in love with him. I knew he didn’t have feelings for me, but i knew he used to. Even my ex knew. But he knew I have feelings for him and after we slept together I felt he used me and I told him I no longer wanted contact. He respected my decision but at first was sad and tried to ask me not to. With my age, it is embarrassing even asking this question but it is what it is. He used to message me good morning every morning and I’d say it back but we wouldn’t talk throughout the day. So the next morning, he still messaged me good morning and I ignored it and he didn’t do it anymore.
When we first got back in touch at the beginning of the year, he would always view my stories. Before this, he only did maybe once every couple months. Now after going no contact, he hasn’t missed a single one. Last month I posted a guy I was dating at the time and a couple other things on my story, and R saw the first one with the guy and then swiped away and didn’t look at the rest for a few hours after. I purposely don’t look at all of his but I do here and there. I don’t look at most stories people post cause i just kinda don’t care. I don’t think most people do look at all the stories people posted but I could be wrong. Knowing R though, he’s a drummer in a local band and has a bunch of people on social media because he’s well known around here. So it doesn’t make sense to me that he would go through 100+ stories every day seeing everything everyone posted?
I don’t mind it but I’m getting frustrated. Is he doing it on purpose to stress me or maybe he’s not even doing it on purpose and I’m just crazy. I’m still in love with him, I’m overthinking it but what does it sound like?
Guy I’ve known for a lot of years named R who’s been a good friend. We slept together once and then again in February. I’ve always had feelings for him, I am in love with him. I knew he didn’t have feelings for me, but i knew he used to. Even my ex knew. But he knew I have feelings for him and after we slept together I felt he used me and I told him I no longer wanted contact. He respected my decision but at first was sad and tried to ask me not to. With my age, it is embarrassing even asking this question but it is what it is. He used to message me good morning every morning and I’d say it back but we wouldn’t talk throughout the day. So the next morning, he still messaged me good morning and I ignored it and he didn’t do it anymore.
When we first got back in touch at the beginning of the year, he would always view my stories. Before this, he only did maybe once every couple months. Now after going no contact, he hasn’t missed a single one. Last month I posted a guy I was dating at the time and a couple other things on my story, and R saw the first one with the guy and then swiped away and didn’t look at the rest for a few hours after. I purposely don’t look at all of his but I do here and there. I don’t look at most stories people post cause i just kinda don’t care. I don’t think most people do look at all the stories people posted but I could be wrong. Knowing R though, he’s a drummer in a local band and has a bunch of people on social media because he’s well known around here. So it doesn’t make sense to me that he would go through 100+ stories every day seeing everything everyone posted?
I don’t mind it but I’m getting frustrated. Is he doing it on purpose to stress me or maybe he’s not even doing it on purpose and I’m just crazy. I’m still in love with him, I’m overthinking it but what does it sound like?
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i think he is trying to get a reaction out of you and for you to break no contact first, and he is also probably hoovering.. going through same type of thing and to the guy you called an idiot i had to block him from one of my questions lol
I think he’s trying to get some reaction from me too I’m just not sure what it is that’s why I’m asking. And I had to block him too I’ve had issues with him before lol
girl ik exactly what u going through he probably just trying to come back but sometimes those people dont change until they change for themselves be the same toxic cycle and yeah i think he is a old bitter man
It sounds like you should stop stalking his social media. You are being ridiculous.
How am I stalking him 😂
By closely monitoring his Snapchat... what do you mean how?
Seeing that he viewed my story is equivalent to stalking? Okay hahaha
You admitted you look at his stories! If him looking at yours is a problem then BLOCK him. You can minimize it all you want but you clearly haven't let go.
So you are in love with a guy who used you for sex... what a surprise.
You’re an idiot, if you’re not gonna fully read my question don’t post an answer. I never said I look at his stories and if I did, that’s not called stalking. We’re friends on Snapchat. I never said it was a problem either, as no shit I’d block him if I wanted to haha just stop replying
Yeah keep telling me what to do and see how that works for ya.
"I never said I look at his stories"
"I purposely don’t look at all of his but I do here and there"
Lol you can't even keep your own bullshit straight. And I'm the idiot? Lol you're a joke... go clean your room.
Why are adults using Snapchat?
I grew up using Snapchat, what age are you required to delete it Lmao