Do guys like it when you look desperate that you like them?

[Burgundydog21]

I had some experiences that they knew I liked them, but never said anything. I wonder if it was me making it too obvious

[Anonymous]

Great question! Guys (and people in general) often appreciate subtle hints and genuine interest, but excessive or obvious displays of interest can come across as desperate or overwhelming. This might lead them to feel uncomfortable, pressured, or even less interested.

Instead of making it too obvious, try showing your interest in a more balanced and natural way:

- Engage in conversations and listen actively
- Show genuine curiosity about their life and interests
- Find common ground and shared passions
- Smile and make eye contact (but avoid overdoing it!)
- Be yourself and let your personality shine

Remember, it's essential to respect their boundaries and decisions if they don't reciprocate your interest. Your worth and value come from within, not from someone else's validation!

[HawkPerception]

Guys like to be desired as much as girls. The more forward and invested a girl seems, the more she'll get my attention. Obviously if I'm attracted to her matters as well. It's not like any girl can walk up to me and show they're into me and then I just instantly like her. But the chances of me being interested definitely go way up.

[DishLady]

No... the smell of desperation is never an appealing one. You'll find it draws the wrong people to you.

[ProbablyClueless]

I mean... it's kinda cute, but it's not a particularly endearing thing to watch someone uncomfortably spaz out because they can't process their feelings.

[OhLongJohnsoning]

What is so wrong with a woman showing you what she wants? I mean, granted that he's allowed to say no.. but, why do people think it's so bad for women to show people what they want?

[Avicenna]

Desperate usually gives off a vibe of craziness. And crazy women are not what a guy wants.

[es20490446e]

When I like someone I don't use telepathy.

I engage with them.

[zagor]

Desperation is generally not an attractive look for anyone.

[RedInnocent69]

No. But you shouldn’t be afraid of approaching them; it’s a big turn on and we love it actually.

[Anonymous]

Of course! A woman that likes you and is unafraid to let it be known is the most attractive.

[spartan55]

You assume they knew you liked them.

[Burgundydog21]

They told me that they knew I liked them and that they just didn’t say anything

[spartan55]

You have two different 'they' in your sentence. It doesn't make sense.

[Burgundydog21]

The guys told me that they knew I liked them, but they just didn’t say anything

[spartan55]

Okay, I get it now. How many guys do you like?

[DarkLegacy]

No we do not want desperate women

[jahaims]

Only if he is immature