Guys, Is wrong that I socialize with people at the bar?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has a problem that I socialize at bars by having conversations with men. If there’s an open discussion he feels I shouldn’t be apart of it because that’s me being too friendly. Or not accepting drinks from someone if they are just being kind. To him it’s being disrespectful. Am I wrong for being as social as I am?

[Nirmroth]

What do you care about our opinions? Your boyfriend said it makes him uncomfortable. Why or how he feels that way is up to him. Either you can find a compromise, stop it all toghether or in the most drastic way decide you aren't a fitt toghether anymore.

In the course of a rl you will both be setting boundaries, you're not forced to accept them but if you wish to continue a rl you gotta deal with them.

[Anonymous]

Don’t see the problem in it as long as it’s only talking.

Personally, I think accepting a drink from someone you don't know and have no intention of getting to know is at least naive, at worst rude and disingenuous. Potentially unsafe, too. I wouldn't feel personally disrespected as the boyfriend, but I would question her character.

[Asker]

What if the person is offering drinks to the people he’s associating with? Including myself

[Opinion Owner]

Is that the only time you would accept the drink?

[DrPepper12]

That's a fine line. You should be more respectful and he should be more understanding.