Why would a guy do this?

[Anonymous]

Recently been seeing a guy for over a month. We would spend almost every weekend together. He would let me stay the night over his place if I wanted to. We would kiss and talk a lot to each other. We got into a little disagreement last Sunday and I thought we resolved the issue, but then all of a sudden the communication changed he went 2 days without texting me. He eventually texted me and I went a day without texting him. And I texted him to see how he was doing and he texted me back right away. And then he just ghosted me. It’s going on day 3 and haven’t heard from him.

[Anonymous]

People who ghost people are cowards. Don’t play these type of games with him if he refuses to talk to you…. Move on.

I get sometimes people need time to calm down this can be normal. But not going days without talking he isn’t a child. He could simply explain that he doesn’t feel like things are going to work out.

Im not saying he owes you a big long exclamation someone will get defensive and yell at me, the exact kind of people I talk about. But that’s another story.

People who ghost are just cowardly. They don’t know how to talk like adults and play the silent game. If he’s still angry he could say so. If whatever the disagreement was is a dealbreaker. Then he could say so.

Another problem is some of these people like to leave you on the back burner. So if he can’t find someone else he thinks he can just go back to you. If he’s still interested he would talk to you.

I don’t know what the argument was over. If you could elaborate it may help me give a better answer.

[spartan55]

What do you mean why is he doing it, you are doing the same shit! What was the argument about?

[spartan55]

He texted last so technically you are ghosting him. So why would you do this?

[Asker]

No I texted him last

[spartan55]

That's not what your post said.

[EmmaMary]

Just where the fuck would we be without mobile phones! 😂

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Evamee]

Sounds like he just does not want to be with you anymore

[historectomy]

Honestly depending on the argument this is a really childish way to communicate and does not bode well for him in the future, unless he has good reason I would cut him off

[spartan55]

@historectomy
She is doing the same thing, guess you're just going to ignore that?

[historectomy]

Either way is childish but this just sounds toxic so either way I think she should leave up to her tho she knows more of the situation than me