Are guys weirded out about oral on a girl?

[Crimsyjo]

Some guys say they like doing it. But when guys stipulate it has to be "freshly washed" and shaven first? I mean... of course there has to be good hygiene. It's kind of a unspoken rule. BUT when they stipulate like that verbally it irks me cos guys will happily expect us gals to drop on them anywhere anytime!

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Basically I been talking this dude for some secret meet ups for sex and he said sometimes he might just want a BJ not sex. When I didn't respond straight away (I was busy) he said dw, your get something too. And then said but he only likes to go down on pussy when it's "been freshly washed and smells nice" 😄.
I get that. But it also takes the grrr passion out of meeting to fuck lol and I'm kinda off him now.

[BTigers96]

Personally I'm not weirded out by it. Like you said, there's an expectation that she's relatively clean before you go down a woman. But, I've done it many times at the end of a dates after going out together after drinks, dinner, a party, etc... He sounds like he had a bad experience or something? I'd say 80% of the time the women I've gone down on who weren't "freshly showered" we're fine. I was turned on, and I liked how they tasted. Coincidentally, I noticed the more oral I gave the more I got in return. So, I've always tried to keep that in mind... lol.

[Crimsyjo]

Excellent abd exactly what i mean. My boyfriend also said same thing which irked me. I would happily suck him off at random times. In kitchen, passing in hallways, in the morning, lying in bed... I didn't make him go upstairs and shower 5 mins before touching him. And I of course will wash. But the impression that it has to be like in a time frame... big turn off!! Like u say... sex is rarely planned to that extent!

[BTigers96]

You're not wrong for expecting quid pro quo, not at all! What's good for the goose... sounds like he needs to grow up a little bit!

[Anonymous]

I don't really ask for either of those things. My wife is trimmed and I find her natural scent hot. She has good hygiene in general, so when the mood hits me, I prefer to just give her oral right away without waiting for her to shower

[Crimsyjo]

Exactly as it should be 🥰

[CrazyGirl2]

Wait! You are negotiating with a guy you don’t know to hook-up and have sex w/ him? That’s just nasty! But yes, I’m sure there are guys who don’t like giving oral, just like there are some women who don’t like giving oral. Congrats, you’ve discovered that not all people are the same!

As for the “clean” part. Why would you NOT be clean down there? Especially before, or during sex? if you are making out with a guy, (or negotiating with a stranger on-line to hook up), why would you just not take 2 minutes to “freshen up” before getting into bed with him? Our vaginas are basically just warm moist leaky lady-bits, what woman would not spend a minute or two, just to make SURE everything is clean down there before the man you love, (or a stranger you just men online) puts his mouth there?

[Crimsyjo]

Haha yh negotiating for a friends with benefits is like ordering pizza these days 😋. It's kinda like dating without the complicated bits of a relationship. Pick a hot guy, talk, see if you have a connection, then see if there is sexual chemistry. Likes, dislikes, things you both wanna try... talk about std tests etc.

And lol that's exactly what I'm sayin. of course we gals wash before meeting up as well as just like generally anyways. So for a guy to explicitly say it in such a way is ugh! Annoys me! Cos my boyfriend said same thing. Yet when we was having fun out abd about was I like oh no I can't put my mouth down there until we get help abd u go have a rinse first? Talk about ouble standards!

[CrazyGirl2]

Oh, I know all too well that it's VERY easy to do when you're a woman. I just choose not to! My personal rule is that I not have sex with a guy until I'm in a committed relationship with him. Yeah, that does eliminate a lot of guys, but I have no interest in those type of guys anyway! I certainly don't judge women who choose to lift the hook up lifestyle, hell, two of my six best friends are total sluts (THEIR words, not mine!), one is a transgender, and is having trouble finding a relationship with someone who is not a fetishist, end of the remaining three, two are in very long-term committed relationships, and one has an engagement ring on her finger like me. again, it's not a case of better or worse, it's just a case of differing belief systems and morality.
But I wish you all the luck in the world, and I hope you find someone you like that. You can hook up with whenever you are in the mood.

[Crimsyjo]

Actually I am a one-guy type of woman. So I want ONE FB. Well I did. I had a really bad relationship that put me off men and sex for 8 years. So at first I started wanting sex but not relationship. Now I do want a relationship cos I want intimacy. But it's really hard! Your really young still and keeping yourself from jumping in will get you a good guy! I wish I could do that! Well. I am looking for a relationship now. So an FB is my way of getting needs met and not jumping into bed too quick with an actual potential guy...
I wouldn't sleep with a FB whilst dating tho. If i start liking a guy I'm all in with that guy.
But I know it's not good. I keep wanting to stop. And be like you and wait!

[CrazyGirl2]

Hey, you gotta do you sweetie. I just made a conscious decision at 14, to not do the Hook-up or situationship thing, and I haven't. Don't get me wrong, i’ve made out with a bunch of them, given a few BJ’s, but I avoided sex until we were in a committed long term relationship. I’m not saying that it’s right for everyone, but given my circumstances, it was right for me, at the time, and in my case, it worked out for the best. So I don't have any regrets. However, like I wrote, I don’t judge how other women chose to live their lives. Being a one man (at a time) woman is definitely better for you, as it removes a lot of drama, or potential drama from your life, so good for you. I didn't “wait” I dated since 9th grade, and I’m engaged to be married now, but my fiancé certainly appreciates that he’s marrying a VERY “low milage” woman who hasn't fu*ked every guy we walk past on campus. It’s just a personal preference. Good luck to you in your future.

[rebeliouse]

good question i find that if I know im going to get lucky if wash and trim before and expect that the girl would too

if its sex on impulse then either add show into the forplay before hand

or if thats not possible as long as had shower that day its usually not that bad

sucks if she trys to clean using toilet paper as you always end up with some of that left over in the vulva lol

otherwise it is what it is sometimes the natural smells and tastes are a turn on anyway :)

@Crimsyjo

[Crimsyjo]

Haha meeting for car sex wouldn't allow for immediate cleaning. Tho of course I'd wash before leaving my house.
Just irks me cos my ex got BJs every day but he was like - only lick pussy if straight from the shower/bath! So particular!! Tho in that case I got it. Cos with a boyfriend around my pussy was getting several rounds of cum in it daily. It is harder with pussy than cock!

[rebeliouse]

exactly my point if you had a wash before hand if you knew it was going to happen thats ok but if she has been up since crack of dawn and is all dried piss crusty discharge then its not that appealing just like a cock covered in knob cheese

but then if you are really into her and feel in a filthy mood and really want to be intimate with her then you would ingest all and get on with it :D

[Mark987]

I have given oral to women from a young age, my only realy concern is that she takes care of that area ( smell wise, and hair wise). All women I have give oral to had either a shaved or a strip.. and washed down there so there was no smell. I am not afraid to give oral.. as long as she takes care of that area...

[SamIam96]

I'm not the least bit weirded out. I love, love, love giving oral. If she's hairy, that's fine. Smooth as glass, good too. Clean enough to go to a nice restaurant, I'm gonna be eating her.

The worst that happens is maybe a hair escapes into my mouth. lol, I'll survive. Trust me, she'll be spotlessly clean before I'm done.

[loveslongnails]

I've gone downtown on two women in my life who smelled and tasted horrible, while the rest were a treat! If she's got wiry, stiff hair, that's no good. I can stay down on a wispy haired, shaven or better yet waxed woman for hours, with some breaks to rest the jaw! LOL

[Crimsyjo]

Eww the thought of hair! I know it should be a natural thing. But how the hell did men used to go down on women in the older days with full bushes lol
A man's push is also not great but can at least be pushed down out the way. But much better trimmed, shaven or smooth for some nice ball licking!

[loveslongnails]

I agree. I don't want hair in my food! LOL I don't know how much of a "thing" oral sex was during the "old days".

[TaureanBull81]

I'm not at all! I absolutely lurve going down on a woman and have never given any such stipulations as what you've mentioned in your question.

I've eaten pussy when it's been sweaty from a gym 🏋️‍♀️ workout or from a long work day.

Seems the men you've met are high maintenance @Crimsyjo

[Crimsyjo]

Haha you are a Prince among men @TaureanBull81 and yh I dropped his ass. Some men just won't get good pussy because of their mouth haha.

[TaureanBull81]

Good for you for dropping his ass @Crimsyjo. There are men who are rather selfish and only want their needs met when it should be mutual.

Haha gotta eat that good pussy when it's presented 😉😋

[AviatorTom]

I'm sure some guys don't like giving oral, just like there are some girls who don't like giving oral to guys. Then there are guys, like me, who enjoy giving oral, one of the best ways to pleasure a female partner.

[OfMiceandMen]

Not at all, you can't expect her to go down if you're not willing to do the same. It's one of those tit for tat rules of engagement kind of situation.

[IloveWinters]

I definitely love giving oral, it makes me feel like a lion licking the bushes, and as the partner starts releasing juices, that's even fucking hot. I am swallower so I enjoy eating her out and the way she moans validates that I am doing good.. I am not weirded out if she is bushy down there, but yeah basic hygiene is a necessity for me. If she maintains basic hygiene, I would give her oral anywhere anytime... And swallow too...

[IloveWinters]

@Crimsyjo don't u believe mem should always swallow?

[Crimsyjo]

Haha if they want to. Nobody HAS to swallow lol.

[Stevepro68]

As a life long enthusiast of eating at the Y. I will tell you every woman I've enjoyed is all vastly different. I can say that most guys will tell you that a little after scent on your face is a badge of honor and a pleasant memory.

[Luckycharms12]

Depends on the guy but both should be freshly washed and shaved

[Crimsyjo]

I've sucked guys just back from work with no time for shower first... just spit good on it first lol

[Luckycharms12]

Lol I've eaten girls too like that guess just up to the person if they want to please or not and make excuses

[Apple1996]

Most guys love it. The being clean thing is a odd ask tho since most women already keep themselves clean

[Crimsyjo]

Exactly!!! So I'm OK to be turned off by it? Cos it's not that I'm saying he should be OK with "not clean". It's just that it's like an unspoken rule that it will be lol.

[Apple1996]

Yeah I would be bothered by that too. Luckily my husband will eat me out anytime

[Crimsyjo]

Yay. I haven't much experience with it. I always felt too self conscious but it's something I now want to explore more. This kind of comment tho doesn't help with my already self conscious fears about what a guy might be thinking when down there!!

[ProbablyClueless]

Most guys are not weirded out by giving oral at all.

That said, obviously anytime you're talking about a group of people, some will and some won't.

There's always somebody that will be weird about anything.

[spartan55]

These dudes feeling entitled to blowjobs and then say they won't eat pussy. The audacity is next level, and for some reason many girls are fine with it.

[bowenw]

Not weirded out, and fair is fair if the guy wants BJs.

[onedarkcloud]

I believe in WHAT IS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER. Everybody has to wash. Stinky pussy and stinky dick are not good eats!!!

[BoopBoopBeep]

Isn't that the bottom level of the food pyramid?

[chrissykerdock]

i gave up on that long ago and understand often a guy just wants a blowjob and that's all

[MrCharlie13]

I love to go down on a girl and make her orgasm. Not all men are the same, tho

[Juxtapose]

I don't mind.. I will even go down on a woman during her period or if she is sweaty. I prefer a better taste though but women are generally great.

[RyanR03]

No not at all. I wouldn’t go down unless I already had been around her enough to know her hygiene and how she carries herself. And when I’m attracted I like to go down and indulge

[rachel776]

if they say it i don't want it

[Crimsyjo]

Exactly 🥰🥰🥰

[Jerre]

I’m never weirded out when eating a girl. I’ve never been disappointed, all the girls I’ve been with are fresh as the air. Ilike bald, but hair doesn’t deter me.

[andre-48]

I would just go for the oral/sex regardless

[stratford]

As long as she is enjoying it, I can do it all day :-)

[OddBeMe]

It was at first. Honestly it’s a natural evolution from fingering. Gotta rev chicks up first.

[Crimsyjo]

Oh interesting. So for younger guys do you think it's quite intimidating? This guy was 22. Like... it's not just a natural urge of oh yeah I really wanna. Some guys are like that! But maybe from experience or porn watching lol
Tho tbf don't see a lot of it on porn either! Or maybe that's just I skip all the boring build up intro lol.
Much like my real life... haha! Skip the foreplay and go straight for the bang 😂

[Twalli]

I don't care if she's shaven or freshly washed. When I want to eat her out, my only rule is that she's not on her period

[Anonymous]

The penis was made to be inserted.

The tongue was not.

Going down on someone puts you in a submissive posture, and men should not be submissive to women in the bedroom.

[DrewJohnson]

I love eating pussy! Definitely not weirded out by it.

[Anonymous]

You have to understand women bleed from there once a month, men dont bleed from there. So ofc most guys find it weird but then again there's a few guys that like it.

[QuietRunner]

no

only if period time or starting period is it weird

[Anonymous]

If the girl is overweight it's kinda gross

And bush must be trimmed

[Opinion Owner]

I have new girlfriend and I like going down on her

[Crimsyjo]

Interesting haha. And bush is not good no

[NathanDavis]

maybe they experienced otherwise

[NathanDavis]

just like I always tell them when I order food... " no avocado " please

even if there's no avocado on the dish, or if it is optional, I make sure they know I don't want avocado in it... lol

[nawtee_me]

I love love love eating pussy

[Jennz6]

Some guys just don’t like to eat pussy

[Jennz6]

@Crimsyjo 💕
So no blowjob for him

[Crimsyjo]

Hahaha!!! I don't want him now anyways. Threw this little fishy back. There was not enough of that grrrr fuck let's rip each other's clothes off passion for me!! His over thinking of pussy killed it for me lol

[Jennz6]

Lots more fish 🐟 in the sea

[MK1997]

Really depends on the guy in my experience

[Crimsyjo]

Do u think some have a bit of a bad experience? Haha

[MK1997]

Yes definitely

You can message me. I want to ask you something

[Bklynbadboy12]

I don't like doing it I love doing it

[ChicoFromThe305]

I heard it tastes like chicken 🙂

[Nifrayu]

I'm not unless she is gross down there.

[Crimsyjo]

Well exactly. That goes for anybody male or female and for any sex act. Would you be so specific about saying it tho? I mean. It should be a given that the man/woman is hygienic and good down there!

[Nifrayu]

Specific yes, but wouldn't be mean about.

[LiamJHayden]

Some guys are.

[Enes38]

I will always do it for you, don't worry

[Julian7312]

I love doing it any which way

[andy530]

I really enjoyed giving a woman oral

[shortster]

I don't ask, and personally I prefer unshaven.

[bananathunder]

I'm all for it...

[jjj101010]

I mean it’s common courtesy to be clean

[Crimsyjo]

Unspoken rule lol. But even so. A guy could get home from work and expect u to suck him off! No bathroom clean up first!

[jjj101010]

I’ve never come home to head so dunno

[CubaPirate]

This one isn't but good hygiene is a must

[OhLongJohnsoning]

Some are, yes

[Crimsyjo]

From a heterosexual female viewpoint I totally get it lol. It's way different from cock which is so external and easier to "clean" fully. And damn I'd feel I was suffocating down there lol. And then add that if you have sex everyday there's no way you gonna not have cum in their pretty much all the time lol...

[LunarEclipse433]

Nope really love it

[MrGSpotHer]

All depends