How do women feel about humble men?

[Anonymous]

How do women perceive a guy who is humble about their work and/or accomplishments?

[fallingup]

It's sweet and down to earth- therefore a definite YES in my book. Guys who brag and brag are obnoxious.

Be careful, though! 'Humble' is good, but it does have an 'only so much' level.

[vishna]

Being humble is a great thing just as long as you also contain self confidence and drive. If you have all thses things you seem like a really good guy.

[beerY33]

humble is good. can be overdone, I suppose.

[Kain6th]

How can it be overdone?

[beerY33]

well, I was thinking of when people are like, so insistent on being humble that it almost becomes the opposite, if that makes sense... it can come across as like, condescending? or arrogant.

[NonchalantBro]

when its clearly fake/ a front

[beerY33]

right. thank you.

[fallingup]

Many people learn that "humble" is attractive, and use it A) so that people like them more, which generally backfires, and B) to get compliments. For an example, the most common girl conversation on Facebook, ages 12-15: "Omfg ew I'm so gross." "omggg shut up your just so gorgeous I hatechu!" etc, etc.

[Anonymous]

Humble is fine, but a lack of confidence is not okay.

[slipslender]

a guy who has accomplished many things is impressive.

a guy who has accomplished many things and is humble about it is... pretty much amazing :)

[Anonymous]

I LOVE that!

I love when a guy is accomplished, intelligent and clever, yet is very humble. Talking too much about yourself is an absolute turn off.

[FierceMegan]

He's a winner! =D

[redvelvet11]

I love it!