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For me, I always make it a goal to treat women equally with dignity and respect.
But that being said, this is the same as a woman being sure she is right about something, like I don't have a problem with an addiction! Even though she does...
It's simple pride. You don't want to admit you are wrong and you might even think you are right, and can even justify it in your mind.
All and all, it's clearly wrong and an issue, I'd put it closer to an addiction simply because it behaves the same way.
You think you don't have a problem and you will keep lying to yourself until a doctor or family has an intervention. You can blind yourself to your own problems and it honestly sometimes takes someone from the outside to call you out on it.
Wake up! You are clearly doing something wrong! Stop it! Or something bad will happen!
It really comes down to awareness and a wake up call, that they need to see what they are doing and how it's hurting other people
Probably not. Men who treat women poorly are weak themselves and generally very selfish. Ditch the MGTOW and Red Pills. All they are are losers in a group.
Like any human, men do feel bad when they do something wrong and they are aware of the damage they've caused.
However each individual is different. Not all humans have the same level of empathy, not all humans are aware of their mistakes and flaws, not all humans are psychologically healthy, not all humans understand the relationship between men and women the same way... It all depends on man in question.
Also feeling bad is different than doing something about it. Most people feel badly about a homeless in the street due to empathy, but few people would actually bother to help.
The same way, I believe most men feel bad in the case they have done something impulsively that after the heat didn't feel right, but that doesn't mean they know how to word an apology. Also depends on the context. Sometimes both parts are at fault in an argument and both parts are too proud to apologize.
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What i feel bad about is you not having the confidants and the strength or the balls to walk away from some one treating you bad or wrong who is making you feel like your nothing or no one ,,, to answer your question I treat a girl the way I WANT TO be treated ,, with love and compression and i real friend with kindness ,, if you think about it why would you want to be with a guy that hurts you because he can. And step out of the picture end look at it like this why would a guy do all the mean thing say all the mean things that he does. Now if it was all true why would that guy want to be around that girl ,,, he wouldn't,,, he would leave ,, so that means what ever this guy is doing to you , its because he know its mot true ,, abd if he knows its not true then what or why is he doing it its to bring you down to his little level in life if he does it long enough you will start to belive him ,, i hope you read this ten times and every time you do and you get to the end word ten time. I hope your mind end your mouth says Run get away from him now
Oh, I have a very simple rule to live by for that - Don't do sh-t you'll potentially regret. Therefore I do not hurt women :)
"This is in terms of the patriarchy, and whether they feel bad or reflect on the fact that women live in a male dominated society, with hyper sexualisation, media and behaviour influenced by the male gaze and misogyny."
Ah, well, not trying to go off topic here but let's say it this way.
I really *dislike* the 1950s idea. I am absolutely the opposite of fond of the housewife idea, who isn't privileged to get academic degrees and a career. This is why I am happy it's 2020 and not 1950-something. I feel no more responsible for what happened back then in a then patriarchal society than I do for the dinosaurs extinction by meteors.
However!!!
The reason for all that hypersexualization and objectification of women is mainly because said women allow themselves to be. Remember, that your own actions carry consequences. Nobody forces you to twerk half naked for rappers or sell your nudes on OnlyFans. This is all voluntarily for the most part. Just check the video below and you'll see what I mean.
If you want it to stop, then do so for yourself. Don't bother saving anybody else from it (unless they really want to) because that's on them and not your job. This is pretty much all you can do.
One last but not least thing.
For a male dominated and patriarchal society (in the USA at least) women sure do get to enjoy the benefits of marriage, divorce, alimony, child support, child custody, being favored in the courts and whatnot.
We're all in this sh-t together.
I don't really think our society is male dominated. Yes, most politicians are men but women make up more than half of the people who voted them into office.
I agree that women are hypersexualized. I don't think all men should be held responsible for this, although a lot of men on GAG tend to justify it by saying "sEx SeLlS" which is gross and I think those guys are part of the problem. However, if a guy doesn't justify the sexual objectification of women, I don't think he should be held responsible for it.
Since I was brought up to treat women with respect... I feel very good about how I treat women. As for other men, I'm not them and don't know how they would feel about how they treat women. Though if you think about it... If they are continuously treating women badly... I doubt they would continue to do so if it made them feel bad in any way.
Some it takes years to wake up to what they have done.. lots of times it's not on purpose but just guy stupidity.. regret is bad for a person, I know I have my demons and that's why I have kept to my self, I made peace for failing the ladies in my life and they are great friends because I accepted that I was wrong.. it took a long time but I can now look all them in they eye and say thank you I don't know how but I blinded my self and left a beautiful selfless girl to the way side.. shame on me shame. But I know now I know better than most..
There are good people are crappy ones. The people (men and women) who complain about feminism and treat women like dirt are simply bad people. A lot of the guys that are like that have had mothers who were sadly doormats, come from a country where women aren't considered fully human or they have terrible personalities and have trouble finding a mate. I don't think any of these types really care how badly they treat women.
The worst thing I've ever done to a woman is ignore them.
Sure, I'm a misogynist... but that's kinda the result of having an abusive, neglectful, alcoholic mother and a society that panders to women. I assume men in your life have been very hurtful for you to assume all men treat women poorly?
And you know, I have half a mind to think women are heavily attracted to abusive men. Many of my guy friends and my younger self were such sweethearts and do you think they ever got any attention from girls? Nope. Guess we're just here for you to marry and leech of financially once you've had your fun.
Any person who treats another person poorly, is a jerk. Men should know by now, that all genders have their differences. Society is evolving, just as it has, since the beginning of time. We no longer drag women by the hair to our caves. We have a long ways to go, but we've also come a long ways. Be willing to learn, and be willing to set an example for those coming after us. And, remember this. Everyone has a mother and father.
I can't speak for all men by long chalk but I can at least speak for myself
I can say I've done nothing on your list but then I come from a very different
sub-species of men (part-old school,
part-new school)
The old school part of me is somewhat prudish but more than willing to turn a put a scumbag out of commission (never had to do it as they back off once the threat has been made, one even pissed himself but if I was a rapist prick about to have 12volts run through his prick then I'd probably do the same)
The new school part of me is respectful and never has made a pursuit of any sexual enquiry, I never stopped it if someone else made a pursuit of said nature towards myself because that would make me a sexist
It depends on the man. Some men can't help how they treat women (especially when no one else is around) - or maybe they just don't want to try to be a better person. It's all explained very well in the book "Are Men The Weaker Sex". A lot of women have read it and they said it helped them understand where men are coming from. If you google it, you can find booksellers where you can download it for free. Basically it all has to do with the evolution of the human race. Quite interesting.
Sometimes I feel bad about my mother doing most of the household chores, though ultimately that is more of a I am a bad person thing, since my father was the family breadwinner and still did the cooking. I did have a lot of homework, schools these days seem to believe that kids have all the time in the world, we had to learn a lot more for the same careers than our parents and grandparents.
I don't know about other guys, but the only behavior towards anyone, women or men, that I've ever regretted is taking someone for granted. The pain when they're gone, and the realization that you never acknowledged how important they were to you in the first place. Everything else is trivial, but taking people for granted or being taken granted of is pretty savage.
I am sure yes they do and especially if the woman is very nice, sweet, kind and caring and such deserve to be treated nicely with respect.
At least I always treat women who are genuinely nice, kind , sweet and caring with respect and appreciation. Even if I say no or refuse then I will say that politely and as nicely as possible.
I hate the mistreatment of anyone so I would way yes. There are problems facing women (like there are for men too... but different). I know it exists but I don't believe misogyny is as prevalent in society as it's made out to be.
I'm a gentleman. I'll only feel bad if i unintentionally made her feel bad and realised it or she told me. Otherwise i won't feel bad since i treat them with respect the way im supposed to with pretty much everyone else.
If we're talking in terms of collective guilt here then fairly no, but if they've seen it happen to their close beloveds then yes.
Ex. Cory and Barbara are best friends. Barbara's boyfriend has the habit of shouting on people. Normally Cory doesn't care much but one time he witnessed him barking her to get out. Yeah he felt terrible
I generally do feel bad if I feel I’ve treated some woman too harshly or if I was rude. It sometimes happens, though I try to avoid it.
But there are also other instances where I felt bad. A female friend of mine was complaining she gets catcalled frequently and I know like 80% of women in some cities here report some form of sexual intimidation. Those things also make me feel bad, though I don’t think I’ve ever done either.
I see a lot of questions like these that are generalized in words. Then the question bearer has to go back and correct the grammatical errors.
This can definitely be taken as a sexist question. Where you're waiting for men to reply and correct you calmly. Then folks turn around and start down voting their posts.
There are both Misandrists and Misogynists on this site. Please double, triple, quadruple check your questions before posting. Unintentionally starting fighting.
Nothing to feel bad about. I treat women the same as men wherever applicable. What I find is that women get a little bit of shell shock when they're treated the same and don't like it. I just say "I'm sorry you feel that way" -- as in it's unfortunate that you feel bad, but it's your silliness to overcome and I'm not actually going to change. Then I move on and don't care.
That said it really is unfortunate that they feel that way and that they believe in things like patriarchy, but they're never going to snap out of that by catering to their beliefs.
Just treat them normally, then tell them they're being dumb when they complain about it and move on.
I feel like both genders don't always know how they treat the other. But I have seen some friends getting teased and bullied by their boyfriends and looking really sad and then the next day the guy acts like he didn't just bring her self esteem down a whole another level.
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