Guys, When a guy is nervous and “can’t get it up” does that mean he doesn’t like me what does it mean?

[Anonymous]

[NamerOfStars]

Getting an erection isn't like flipping a light switch; several bodily systems have to work together to make it happen, and there's a LOT that can go wrong. Nervousness, fatigue, and intoxication can all make the attempt fail, and that's BEFORE you take into account age and medical issues. It may also be that he's not attracted to you, but if you've reached the point where you're having sex, that's not very likely.

If you find yourself in this situation, the best thing to do is to roll with it- start a makeout session and give him a little grope; show him (rather than just telling him) that you're not freaking out about it. That may be enough to kickstart his body into thinking "Oh, right, it's time for sex!" and getting an erection going; if not, take his hand and gently glide it southward; he should get the idea.

If that's still not enough, well, I'm guessing that you two are kinda new with each other; long-term, you can go in for digital (which doesn't require the full hardness that penetration does) or oral (which requires even less) stimulation yourself, but you may not be comfortable with that yet. But the idea is to show him that you're not going to flip your lid, that you still like him, and that sex can be enjoyable even without an orgasm. It'll reassure him and make HIM much less likely to freak out in turn.

[genericname85]

mens dick hardness has nothing to do with their feelings for someone. you girls just always work for sex. just spit on it and stick it in. no problem. men have performance anxiety and especially for a girl they really don't wanna mess up with, that pressure makes it more likely to fail performing.

[genericname85]

just give it a few more tries and see.

[ProbablyClueless]

Just means he's nervous and can't get out of his own head. Maybe you could help by putting him more at ease in the moment, but the issue is with him; not you.

[236color]

No it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't like you. Nerves, drugs, alcohol, age and various medical conditions can keep a guy from getting it up.

[strateguy632]

Oh it doesn't mean anything about you.

You are still pretty and attractive and he likes you but he is tired.

[exitseven]

it might mean he lies you too much and wants to please you. It can be a lott of pressure.

[LiamJHayden]

Anxiety does not usually mean he doesn't like you. He's probably just worried about not being good or, the more common, an unwanted pregnancy.

[Anonymous]

He is nervous, possibly because he like you.

[Anonymous]

Or, he's just exactly what you said, nervous...

[RowdyYates]

Didn’t you just answer your own question?

[jahaims]

It has nothing to do with you

[Anonymous]

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