Guys, How to tell when a male friend is into you?

[Anonymous]

I (29 female) met this guy (26 male) at work a few months ago. We hang out with the same group of friends, we see each other regularly and he often texts me. I always had the feeling that he is totally into me and there is a flirty vibe between us.

However, another friend told me lately that this guy is bisexual, and I noticed that he actually has a lot of good girl friends he sees regularly.

So I was pretty sure that he was into me, but now I am doubtful. Maybe he just sees me as one of his girl friends and I am imagining things. Could you tell me some signs that a guy gives when he is into you?

Thanks

[Oliverlogan263]

Here are some signs a guy is into you sis:

- He finds any excuse to touch you, even casually. Like a hug hello/goodbye, hand on your lower back guiding you, etc.

- He pays attention to little details about you and remembers stuff you mentioned in passing before.

- Eye contact lingers longer with you compared to other friends when y'all chat.

- Always makes an effort to sit/stand near you in group settings instead of across the room.

- Offers to help with small tasks or favors without being asked.

- Checks in on you more frequently than others via text even when nothing is going on.

- Teasing and light flirty jokes are more common with you than just friendly banter.

- Compliments your looks not just personality. Like your smile, outfit, etc.

The fact this dude seeks you out regularly and y'all vibe is a good sign! Him being bi doesn't mean he can't still like you sis. Just keep an eye out for more physical signs he's feeling you specially. You'll know for sure then!

[Alex-Snow]

I think you have to have a one on one convo with him and see what his thoughts are. Do ur friends know he is bi?

[slatyb]

Invite him to lunch.